Since you seem so interested in my Mary, I'll repost some info about her.
Is it normal to still hold a flame of sorts for someone you broke up with more than 15 years ago?
When I was in my early 20's I met someone while I was married and we carried on a love affair for about 10 years.
During that time she would date loosely different guys seeing that I was married she had that freedom but we still
loved each other. There were times when she was out with some other guy and I would come over just out of the
blue and her sister would call her, she would immediately leave her date to be with me. After about 4 years into
our affair I felt bad and tried to end it, but she still called me everyday for a solid year just to hear my voice on the
answering machine and hope that i may accept her call. Finally I gave in and we continued right were we left off,
still as deeply in love as before. Finally after about 9 years I broke her heart for the last time and our hearts parted ways
although we would sometimes see each other the flame was gone. Finally after year 10 we just faded apart and went
out separate ways. That was about 15 years ago and truth be told I still lover her and probably always will, I often wonder
what it would have been like if I had that guts I should have had then to leave my 'then' wife to be with her. After we
parted ways I finally divorced my wife and found someone else, but I still wonder, dream and think of her.
How did your wife not find out about someone who called you regularly and who you saw regularly? And did it not feel wrong to lie to her and carry on a lie like that for any amount of time?
At first I actually got busted. My wifes sister saw me over Mary's house and told my wife. Then one day my wife drove by and saw me with Mary BBQ'ing in her backyard. She didn't get out but just drove away. Of course when I got home all hell broke loose, and I did the "I'll never see her again" thing. But I went back. From that point on I just said I was going out or I saw her on Sundays when the wife was in church, or even during work hours [I'd take the day off or get off early and see Mary]. Years went by and I stood my ground saying I can spend my time with who ever I wanted too....
All these tears I got in my eyes now are a bitch. Oh I'm not crying over this added troll post of yours-that came from that soap opera, All my Children didn't it? Yeah one of those old episodes. Back when Kelly Ripa was on that show. No, these tears come from the fact that my wife is chopping up a whole onion on a chopping board near me. I got to say dude. You sure are working mighty hard with all of these added troll posts. I realize it's about denial but nobody believes a fucking word you post now. Face it. It's over dude. Got to run. Those burgers are starting to cook up and smell real good now that she added those onions. Want to get a couple of cold ones out the fridge. Um, bye.
I find it a lot of fun cheating on my wife.
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Since you seem so interested in my Mary, I'll repost some info about her.
Is it normal to still hold a flame of sorts for someone you broke up with more than 15 years ago?
When I was in my early 20's I met someone while I was married and we carried on a love affair for about 10 years.
During that time she would date loosely different guys seeing that I was married she had that freedom but we still
loved each other. There were times when she was out with some other guy and I would come over just out of the
blue and her sister would call her, she would immediately leave her date to be with me. After about 4 years into
our affair I felt bad and tried to end it, but she still called me everyday for a solid year just to hear my voice on the
answering machine and hope that i may accept her call. Finally I gave in and we continued right were we left off,
still as deeply in love as before. Finally after about 9 years I broke her heart for the last time and our hearts parted ways
although we would sometimes see each other the flame was gone. Finally after year 10 we just faded apart and went
out separate ways. That was about 15 years ago and truth be told I still lover her and probably always will, I often wonder
what it would have been like if I had that guts I should have had then to leave my 'then' wife to be with her. After we
parted ways I finally divorced my wife and found someone else, but I still wonder, dream and think of her.
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Don't you have that disease that makes you grow giant tits? Like E cups?
Hi Mary here, I so glad to here that you miss me so much and still have feelings of love for me! It makes my heart go thumpity thump!
How did your wife not find out about someone who called you regularly and who you saw regularly? And did it not feel wrong to lie to her and carry on a lie like that for any amount of time?
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At first I actually got busted. My wifes sister saw me over Mary's house and told my wife. Then one day my wife drove by and saw me with Mary BBQ'ing in her backyard. She didn't get out but just drove away. Of course when I got home all hell broke loose, and I did the "I'll never see her again" thing. But I went back. From that point on I just said I was going out or I saw her on Sundays when the wife was in church, or even during work hours [I'd take the day off or get off early and see Mary]. Years went by and I stood my ground saying I can spend my time with who ever I wanted too....
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Why did you even get married if you felt that way? Did you love your wife at all?
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Good question. I should have never married her. I loved Mary.
All these tears I got in my eyes now are a bitch. Oh I'm not crying over this added troll post of yours-that came from that soap opera, All my Children didn't it? Yeah one of those old episodes. Back when Kelly Ripa was on that show. No, these tears come from the fact that my wife is chopping up a whole onion on a chopping board near me. I got to say dude. You sure are working mighty hard with all of these added troll posts. I realize it's about denial but nobody believes a fucking word you post now. Face it. It's over dude. Got to run. Those burgers are starting to cook up and smell real good now that she added those onions. Want to get a couple of cold ones out the fridge. Um, bye.