I feel very discusted

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I got married a year ago I have three boys and my husband has two girls. One of which is a 18 year old. She has very odd behaviors. When we first started dating she said she was not ready for her father to have a girl friend. When she found out we were getting married, things got worse, she hangs all over him (her father)., is constantly touching him. She told him she does not want us kissing each other so much. And is constantly giving cocky looks when ever he and I are together. I am very uncomfortable when she is in our home. Two weeks ago when my husband was up stairs for only 5 minutes, she txt him and asked him if he was coming down stairs with her to watch a movie. When he was going to take them home he came up stairs to say goodbye to me. and for the first time I went down with him and there was his 18 year old. lying on MY Sofa with her legs wide open, no panties on and her coochie totally at view!!!! I am so discusted .. I truly believe she wanted her father to see her. She did not know I was behind him and he told her to cover up, and she acted like it was not big deal, I am sick to my stomach over this.. Then she tells my husband a few days later that she only wants him to spend her birthday with her. Dont girls this age want to be with a boyfriend? Not there father. I dont like the way this looks. and it scares me that this is going to tear us apart.. And I do not want her behaviors to affect my two youngest boys. My oldest is a United States Marine (stationed in Japan). The other two live with us. and do not need to see any of this...

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  • kneegnaw
    13 years ago

    Downright, that girl needs help! Rehab? Lifecoach?

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Just wondering. Is she easily insulted by what other people say?

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  • dybex
    10 years ago

    You are a paranoid and very insecure person. You're reading your husband's txt messages for heaven's sake. It's sad that you are jealous of his daughter and you're trying to make him choose you over her. It's no wonder she doesn't think you are good enough for her father. The poor girl can't even sit on YOUR sofa in YOUR house without you freaking out.

    Seriously, what's more likely: His daughter wants to have sex with him, or that she was brought up in a household where she felt safe a secure and that being nude around her father isn't an issue for her?

    I'm concerned about the relationship you had with your father.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Wtf? She clearly has the hots for her own father. That's really fucked up, tell her not to come round your place anymore or get her some therapy. Also, I'm not really getting the vibe that she was molested by her father.

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  • ThePonderer
    12 years ago

    There's a few possibilities here. You're right, she could be sexually motivated toward her dad. However she could have gone through some disappointments that made her think dad was going to be there for her and he gets married. Thus she could be making sure you see that as a means of trying to show you who's really in charge. The fact is she's there, and she's challenging.

    What was her reaction when you caught them? And you can't ask people to explain themselves. never works. just the body language, or the looks.

    You may have to tell her discretely that you don't want the others who live and visit to see that kind of thing so if she is revealing just for him that she make sure he's the only one who sees. Then you can pay attention closely and monitor whether or not she's doing it openly to show you up, or discretely meaning it really is just for him.

    If you question her direclty she'll get defensive. Take the "assumptive close" attitude and say you already understand she's flirting with him. It'll piss her off if she was doing that just to eat at you.

    try that and post and post a reply about hw it's going, I'll tell you more ways to get her to illustrate her real intent.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think she needs help from a shrink or something. It seems she's completely jealous of you being with her father but showing her vajayjay like that is not acceptable.

    Consult with her father and ask what he thinks about her behaviour but if he doesn't think she needs help, I wouldn't push the issue. It might help her crazy cause otherwise.

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