I feel so sad and that people are mocking me.

I feel really un-confident. I feel ugly and when people tell me that I am pretty I feel like they are making a joke of me or something. And if a guy ever talks to me at school I feel like they are teasing me or mocking me again.

There was this situation back in november when my friend was friends with a guy, and he told her that he liked me. I felt so weird... I didn't think it was possible for a guy to like me... and he'd never talked to me before so wtf... He told her to tell me that I was pretty and stuff and I just kinda ignored it I guess because to be honest I didn't really know... and then yesterday he told my friend that he thinks she is attractive.. I dont know why but that really hurt me for some reason... like what if this whole time he was just telling her that stuff about me to make her jealous?? and that he really liked her and just kind of used that as a way to... ughh i dont know but is it normal to be this paranoid? and please let me know what you think this means... it would really help because I feel really and guilty and confused right now :(

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  • Uhh coming from a guy... if we say we think a girl is pretty, they pretty much are (no pun intended.

    Unless your ridic. fat and ugly and it was just a joke, but in that case thats fucked up.

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  • Maybe he was being honest about liking u, but u didn't show interest so he moved on. Take peoples complements for what they are. The chance that they all mean what they say and actually want to talk to u are greater than them all conspiring against you. Love yourself!

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  • Whoa, it's almost as if I wrote this post O_o
    I guess we have something in common =S
    Just hang in there, girl! There are other thing in life that will cheer you up, we are just going to deal with this step by step, just don't shut other beautiful things in life okay =) open your eyes ^^"
    best of luck

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  • Are yu are girl or boy

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  • Maybe he says he likes ur friend to make you jealous? Since u did brush him off

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  • You know this is a big problem for many people my sister was like that till she started hanging with me and adapting my attitude. I am a bigger guy but I know I am cute. I don't need anyone to tell me that. Everyone says my ego is way to big to be good for anyone but you have to love yourself before anyone else can. Its all about self confidence. He was probably genuine but you can only pine after someone without getting any feedback for so long before you have to move on which is what it seems like he did. Good luck

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  • *I meant it wasn't a joke- he actually meant it. Sry stupid iPhone!!!!!

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  • A kid in class threw a note at mad that said "you are so cute" and I got mad cause I thought it was a joke. But I wasn't. I'm attractive but very very paranoid!!!!

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  • Well I think he liked you first but when you ignored it and didn't really respond he then started to like your friend.

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  • if you only you could laugh if off and laugh at yourself a bit. no one is better than you, not one single person on the planet thats the truth and i hope you find it out. good luck :)

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  • Perhaps he was saying the truth, maybe not. You'll only really know if you go talk to him, but that's going to take lots of courage. Either way, you shouldn't bother with it. You say you don't know how a guy can like you but you know what, for someone, you're probably the most gorgeous girl to their eyes. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and there will always be someone to see that. Be yourself and don't let these little things get you down. I wish you the best.

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  • After a mind fuck like that, I would need a cig.

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  • call on the Lord for help and strength to get through the day. if those people can't find anything better to do than be strange then they are the stupid ones. getting depressed or sad because of it is letting them get the better of you.... don't stand up for yourself. i had 8 years of physical bullying from boys older than me. they used to beat me to the ground every day. call on the lord for help to get through the day and remember that getting sad is what they want and it is giving in. by doing that i have got over it and i am not bothered at all anymore. the lord will help you if you call on him for help but he may not help you when or how you think he should

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