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I have a small group of friends that do things together and it bothers me that I am hardly included in anything and they lie to me all the damn time about what they are doing so they can do it just together. They ditch me and say they are tied but update their FB status all night being drunk or high. Why do i care and why the hell would friends do this? Is it normal for me to be angry?
the comment above me says it all.
I use to be like you when I was younger. One day I realized that I have to respect myself and make REAL friends and cut out negatives of my life. You don't even have to actively do it, you'll meet new people and make activities with them and the fake friends don't even bother calling you and 2 months later you realize you don't talk to them anymore.
Hope it helps.
they're not good friends.. I think you're in highschool? .. Anyway, it's not the end, make a whole bunch of new friends and just keep yourself busy with them or do some activity you like doing (hopefully in group) .. Just make them feel that you don't "need" them and you never did. Don't cut ties.. But, why care eh!
Be confident and forget about them..
Yeah my friends always leave me out so I try to like walk around with them also I text them to bit guess what..... They ignore me it bothers me because over heard my one friend and he called me stupid and ugly I tryed to hold bak the tears so when I walked home I got testy I couldn't believe what he said it pissed me off so I try to just ignore them now and hang out with my other friends that r not that close to me but trust me it works
they aren't your real friends *real friends* stick with you and don't ditch you out.. but i know how you feel my friends do the same so i just rather hang out by myself i kind of find it better. my friends are always talking with thier other friends and leave me out of thier conversation like i'm invisible to them and i do feel invisible. the best thing you can do is look for some other friends. if you are shy and you can't look for friends then let them come to you. or join clubs after school or join activities maybe you can find friends that way.. but me i usually just walk around and leave my friends since i'm invisible to them and they act like i'm not there with them
my friends used to do this to me in highschool. they thought i would be a drag because i wasn't into drinking and smoking in highschool so they lied to me and said they were staying home, but theyre aim away messages said differently (this was several years ago when aim was popular)...it hurt me at first, but i found a new group of friends who always included me. But, believe me, no friends is better than bad friends.