I feel so empty.....

omg. That is so sad. how many kids have you had with this fellow? I would suggest that you dump him and hit him up for child support. Find a man that will treat you right.

I'm not here to pamper you. It's not like you have cancer. But you are asking for help, pregnant and, above all else, getting cheated on really sucks.

So YES, it is very normal to feel how you are feeling... But you WILL heal and if you play your cards right, come out stronger.

I'm just going to let you know now that what you will feel next is probably horrible bleeding anger and that is OK. Just don't make any brash decisions in this state. Take some time for yourself to mend and reflect.

Like it or not, you are somehow tied into your partner's decision to cross that line. I don't mean that it is your fault in any way, no. He made the move after all, but there needed to be something about him, you and/or your relationship to push him to infedelity.

The underlying dynamics can range anywhere from him being a closet douchebag who stayed with you after he knocked you up the first time: because he thought that by simply adhering to moral and social stigma that everything would somehow fall into place to you being a hormone enraged control freak who never thought that lashing out at him in public would humiliate him so much that he would have to go elsewhere to feel like a man.

As a whole, the human race is pretty pathetic so there is no harm in consoling yourself that you and the people you love are safe and healthy.

Just forgive him, the sooner the better; At least for your sake and your children's. Once you have forgiven him, you will be free from the vice of sin; In your case despair, but like I said: this will likely change into wrath... Either way the longer you wait, the longer you will let misery will poison your life.

Beyond that, I can't say for sure, because I don't know your situation personnaly. I highly recomend counceling, especially given that there has been a communication rupture. Having a neutral 3rd party present will definitely open channels of dialog and provide you with answers or even insights into ways to rebuild bridges. If money isn't roundabound for professional help, then go see a priest that knows neither one of you, even if you are non-religious like me. Aside from a good donation (ahem, sorry if I am putting a price on love) holy people want to see nothing more than couples together and happy and will piously donate their time to young couples in need, irregardless of faith.

I wish you the very best.

Absolutely. Most people tend to hang on to faithfulness and are deeply hurt if they are cheated upon. Take time to heal. And then re-evalute your situation.

i think that you should kill him for cheating on you prengnant

So after everything I have been through nothing has changed, it only got worse. It's like I don't know anything anymore.. My mind is being destroyed

This is a tough situation. He's a dick for what he did, but is he truly sorry? Can you trust him again? You have to forgive him to heal your broken heart. Stay with him if you can't let go but don't get pregnant anymore from him.
Find another man later and then dump his ass if he doesn't become a good dad and husband.

Get rid of him.

You shouldn't be having a baby with your boyfriend...

You can do it lady. Why does your life have to feel like crap? It doesn't! You can take control of your life, figure things out, look at your situation and take necessary action! I don't have kids nor a partner who cheated on me but I STILL BELIEVE IN YOU! Human kind has overcome greater feats. Go find yourself a role model and keep your head up. FORCE yourself to think optimistic. Force yourself to be the best person that you can be in this situation, and use your brains like you never have before.

I know you are pregnant and its even harder to make desicion but leave him.If you forgive him he will do it again.Start a new life

i feel so bad for u, my ex cheated on me its very similar to your story only he tryed to get in contact with her again. i went through a really bad time really bad it ruined the relationship i dnt have children a year later i still wasnt over it i left him. i honestly dont think he expected to feel the way he does, if i got bk with him im 97-100%% hed never do it again the thing is im not geeting bk with him for other reasons. u need to make a decision for your own health and for your child. it be stupid to say talk to him cos youv probably done that probably more than once but i do belive ppl dont know what they have till its gone you have a child my advice if u love him is maby tell him you need a break stay with a family member or freind for a short time and then hopfully youll be able to decide the best thing. contact me anytime if u want to talk to someone who whos been ther, take care x

No! Don't think that. You're a mother now and your children need you. There's so much more for you to live for. Don't let the fact that your boyfriend cheated on you take that away.

I know he's told you about what he's done, but have you really talked it over with him? Ask him why he did it. The lack of answers must be horrible. Tell him what you've written here. If this relationship means something to him, he'll realise that he has to work harder to make it right again. I hope things work out.

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