I think it's very easy to feel misunderstood. Very easy for me anyway. It happens to me all the time, and I hate it. For me, it helps to work out why it's happening and what is making them misunderstand you. I try to think about my own behaviour, the things I say, the way I present myself, and try to work out how others might interpret that. That usually works for me, although maybe you're already doing that.
It's not deliberate, and I don't think it's either side's fault. You know what you mean and what you think, but it might not be coming across. Happens to me often, and to others to, it's nothing unusual (I think:P). Maybe she's just misinterpreted what you've said completely. Either way, why not just talk to her about it?
I feel misunderstood/like an object. IIN?
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I think it's very easy to feel misunderstood. Very easy for me anyway. It happens to me all the time, and I hate it. For me, it helps to work out why it's happening and what is making them misunderstand you. I try to think about my own behaviour, the things I say, the way I present myself, and try to work out how others might interpret that. That usually works for me, although maybe you're already doing that.
It's not deliberate, and I don't think it's either side's fault. You know what you mean and what you think, but it might not be coming across. Happens to me often, and to others to, it's nothing unusual (I think:P). Maybe she's just misinterpreted what you've said completely. Either way, why not just talk to her about it?