Yeah, I know, but I just can't help but notice all the stuff that I read on IIN, and what I hear form other people, and it's like... wow, my life is just so freaking normal.
It's kind of like because I have nothing to complain about with my family, I can't really relate to anyone. I have no idea how on earth I'm suppose to relate to someone who's kid is in custody of their ex and they don't approve of who their ex is dating, or someone's who's parents got divorced, or their dad died at a young age, or someone went through divorce drama regarding unpaid taxes, or their niece likes to pretend that their homeless-
How am I suppose to relate to that? I already have a hard enough time trying to communicate with people, how am I suppose to react to someone talking about such drama in their lives when I honestly don't know anything about it?
Is that your problem, that you don't know how it feels to have so much drama going on in your life?. Well, i can understand that, we all would like to experience different things. But i honestly believe you won't like to live all that stuff you said. You are just so freacking lucky for having your family.
Maybe yeah. The world is so fucked up this days, and having such a charming and conventional family can be weird. But, come on! isn't that great?. Isn't great you don't have a psycho as your dad? isn't great not having a prostitute or a whore as your mom? I bet it isn't great to have a lot of violence around you.
I can understand why you are worried. You have such a normal family, considering how others live. And coming from a person who has been through the both sides, i can tell you it's waay better to have a happy normal family.
I really hope you can enjoy your ABNORMAL FAMILY ;)
But, seriously, don't worry about that stuff. :)
I feel like it's normal to have a dysfunctional family
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Yeah, I know, but I just can't help but notice all the stuff that I read on IIN, and what I hear form other people, and it's like... wow, my life is just so freaking normal.
It's kind of like because I have nothing to complain about with my family, I can't really relate to anyone. I have no idea how on earth I'm suppose to relate to someone who's kid is in custody of their ex and they don't approve of who their ex is dating, or someone's who's parents got divorced, or their dad died at a young age, or someone went through divorce drama regarding unpaid taxes, or their niece likes to pretend that their homeless-
How am I suppose to relate to that? I already have a hard enough time trying to communicate with people, how am I suppose to react to someone talking about such drama in their lives when I honestly don't know anything about it?
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Is that your problem, that you don't know how it feels to have so much drama going on in your life?. Well, i can understand that, we all would like to experience different things. But i honestly believe you won't like to live all that stuff you said. You are just so freacking lucky for having your family.
Maybe yeah. The world is so fucked up this days, and having such a charming and conventional family can be weird. But, come on! isn't that great?. Isn't great you don't have a psycho as your dad? isn't great not having a prostitute or a whore as your mom? I bet it isn't great to have a lot of violence around you.
I can understand why you are worried. You have such a normal family, considering how others live. And coming from a person who has been through the both sides, i can tell you it's waay better to have a happy normal family.
I really hope you can enjoy your ABNORMAL FAMILY ;)
But, seriously, don't worry about that stuff. :)