I am a woman, I know what women want. There is a reason women gravitate to bad boys and stay with guys who hurt them and treat them like shit. They want that.
You still sound like a misogynist. Just because that's something you're into doesn't mean it's something all or even most women are into. You are not the representative for all women. The idea of women wanting "bad boys" is an outdated stereotype. What most women find attractive is confidence, not abusiveness.
Women are biologically designed to be attracted to strong men and strong men are dominant and controlling. Most women either pretend they don’t want that or have actually convinced themselves that they don’t but deep down that’s what they need
Once again you are making generalizations. Not all women are the same and not all men are the same. Different people want and need different things. Not all men who are strong are dominant and controlling and not all men who are dominant and controlling are strong. The things you're describing aren't strength, they're abuse. It's not masculinity, it's machismo.
A man can be both strong and gentle. In fact, it is impossible to be gentle if you are not strong. Gentleness is the ability to control and hold back your strength. You can't be gentle if you don't have any strength to hold back. Yes, women want strong men, but they also want men who are gentle. A man who has conviction, but is also affectionate. That's chivalry. That's what most women want.
Rape and abuse are the number one sexual fantasies reported for women and male criminals (including killers and rapists) get fan mail from women wanting to fuck them. Almost every woman I know has fantasies like that. I stand by my point
Key word being "fantasy". Ask those women how many of them would actually like to act on those fantasies. I'm betting it's not a very large number of them. Just because people fantasize about something, doesn't mean they'd actually like it to happen. Even if you were to ignore that, which you shouldn't, just because that's the most popular fantasy, that doesn't mean that most women have it. If 30% of people like something, let's say action movies, and they're the highest percentage of people who like movies, then that means 70% of people don't like action movies.
Also, women who send fan mail to murderer's and rapists are in the gross minority and are mentally unwell. A very small minority of mentally unwell women is not indicative of all women.
Actually, most "dominant and controlling" guys are pretty weak and insecure.
As for women being attracted to bad boys, sadly that is usually women with self esteem issues who think they can't do any better. Sure, there are some who are into that sort of thing as well, but I think they're more in the minority. For most, the "bad boy" shit gets old pretty fast.
I feel like I'm way too affectionate
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You still sound like a misogynist. Just because that's something you're into doesn't mean it's something all or even most women are into. You are not the representative for all women. The idea of women wanting "bad boys" is an outdated stereotype. What most women find attractive is confidence, not abusiveness.
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Once again you are making generalizations. Not all women are the same and not all men are the same. Different people want and need different things. Not all men who are strong are dominant and controlling and not all men who are dominant and controlling are strong. The things you're describing aren't strength, they're abuse. It's not masculinity, it's machismo.
A man can be both strong and gentle. In fact, it is impossible to be gentle if you are not strong. Gentleness is the ability to control and hold back your strength. You can't be gentle if you don't have any strength to hold back. Yes, women want strong men, but they also want men who are gentle. A man who has conviction, but is also affectionate. That's chivalry. That's what most women want.
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Key word being "fantasy". Ask those women how many of them would actually like to act on those fantasies. I'm betting it's not a very large number of them. Just because people fantasize about something, doesn't mean they'd actually like it to happen. Even if you were to ignore that, which you shouldn't, just because that's the most popular fantasy, that doesn't mean that most women have it. If 30% of people like something, let's say action movies, and they're the highest percentage of people who like movies, then that means 70% of people don't like action movies.
Also, women who send fan mail to murderer's and rapists are in the gross minority and are mentally unwell. A very small minority of mentally unwell women is not indicative of all women.
Actually, most "dominant and controlling" guys are pretty weak and insecure.
As for women being attracted to bad boys, sadly that is usually women with self esteem issues who think they can't do any better. Sure, there are some who are into that sort of thing as well, but I think they're more in the minority. For most, the "bad boy" shit gets old pretty fast.