I feel like i don't like my own personality

I feel as if I don't really like my personality that much.

I didn't always feel like this. I guess I just wish I had more fun but when I spend time with people I find it hard to genuinely enjoy their company (not everyone it's just hard for me to find that connection I guess

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  • bbrown95

    I feel the same as you, it is hard for me to find someone I really click with. I get along fine with most people, but actually forming a connection in which I really enjoy being around someone is rare. I definitely prefer to be alone a lot of the time, and prefer a quiet and relaxing lifestyle over a wild and overly eventful one.

    Honestly, just do what makes you happy. It sounds like you have an expectation for yourself to like the same lifestyle others have, and that's not necessary. Everyone is different, and it's a good thing. If you prefer solitude, there is nothing wrong with that.

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  • ellnell

    Yeah thats normal but you can always change the parts you arent happy with, or learn to like them

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  • Read up on Abraham Maslow, his work in psychology really delves into how people become satisfied with their lives

    I think Henry David Theroux was inspired by Maslow when he said "he went to the woods to live deliberately"

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    • RoseIsabella

      So what you're saying is that Henry David Thoreau had a time machine that he used to travel forward to the 20th Century where he met Abraham Maslow, and learned about Self Actualization, then when he traveled back in time to 19th Century Massachusetts he decided to go to the woods to live deliberately, huh? Wow, that's amazing!

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      • :c

        I prefaced it with "I think," I didn't actually know

        But the ideology is very similar and that's what I was trying to elude to

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        • RoseIsabella

          I'm sorry, that was a cheap shot on my behalf, but I just couldn't resist.

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          • It's okay, I understand that sometimes people pseudo insult each other out of endearment, I don't think I saw that as a possibility in this case

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            • RoseIsabella

              😊

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