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I am a 20 year old guy and i would definitely consider myself bisexual. I wish i was a woman and from a young age i have liked doing things that make me feel feminine but as i went through puberty i have found it harder to do this since i have a lot of body hair and the hair on my head is terrible. I wish i was a different person,i wish i had a different life. I want to know if there are others like this and if there is a way out?
Theres nothing wrong with these feelings, if you feel like this for a long time and it is not just a phases there are plenty of people to support and help you.
My cousins friend is a transvestite, he began dressing up in womens clothes and now hes appeared in his own tv show in africa dressed as a woman, and i dont mean las vegas drag i mean more like wag, eyelashes hair extensions the lot he loves the lifestyle and theres always the option of surgery if you are serious
Well I would say no.... I can't see how or why it happens but bi/homo urges/thoughts desires are not normal... Not saying your bad or evil or your gonna burn in hell by an eternal flame with the heat a million suns... Or your wrong for thinking or feeling what you feel...
But if you look at the way humans are.
we are male and female.... Some species are hermaphrodites and have both gender sexual organs.
These species can mate with any other individual of the same species regardless of male or female...and reproduce(that's key)
Humans can't.... Well the can mate, but you need male on female for the reproduction to work, sure a man could ream another mans hole and shoot his man business up there but that's all...
Homosexuality kinda seems like a trendy phase thing now( obviously people always had homo situations ) but now it just getting out of hand every one is turning into the over flamboyant girly girl homos, and one of my best buddies is gay... I didn't even know he was gay for the first 3 years I knew him.... When I heard someone say "man you're gayer than nick" I was thinking wtf... He's not gay.... Then he says... Dude I'm gay.... I thought he was lying, wasn't.....
Anyway there is something which is not normal about homosexuality there is definitely a signal warp in the brain somewhere.
But that doesn't mean your effed.... Your still you... And don't worry about what other people think anyway.
I thought your comment was amazing. Going by the definition of normal i guess it isnt normal and i agree it doesnt make it a bad thing. Maybe its not thats its a fashionable thing so much as it is simply more(not completely but more) acceptable to be gay now that in previous times? Who knows
Yeah, so you can start living like a women n confide with your loved ones. If I were you, I'd take it real slow n think a lot n then make a move. Just be yourself when you feel like it. May be when/if you decide to chance physically you can save up money n gradually transform. Although I read somewhere that some people regret the decision of surgery so it's better you give it fair enough time
Do you have gender dysphoria? Do certain things about being male make you feel uncomfortable in anyway? If so, you could be trans.
There are plenty of support groups out there. You could look around in your local area for an LGBT/transgender support group or just google "transgender forum", "mtf forum", etc. or something similar. Best of luck, whatever you decide.