I feel inferior with my sexuality because i can never suck dick, iin?

Well I'm really uncomfortable in the relationship department because once in a relationship it requires one to be involved in sucking your partners body parts (as in my case sucking cock).
I feel I'm probably an asexual female because I have no desire for sex or anything gross like sucking a mans penis. I know I can't judge as I haven't tried it but the idea doesn't turn me on. I see all my friends around me that have a boyfriend or partner and wonder how its do easy for them, knowing what's involved in a relationship sexual wise. I feel rather odd and wished it was easy for me but the truth is, it aint. I kind of have to bluff my way around friends in the way that I pretend its all cool and that I'm for it. Sometimes i wonder if it would be easier being with a female as I wouldn't have to have sex or suck dick, but I also would find it gross going down on a female but I'm emotionally invested with females sometimes if that makes sense...so I'm confused??

Is It Normal?
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  • Only in a terminally-ill civilization like this can a woman feel insecure because she doesn't like sucking on men's cocks.

    Technically speaking, oral sex is unnatural. Make of that what you will.

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    • Thanks- Your comment is by far the best and sane comment I have had on IIN.
      Its a breath of fresh air to finally come across a like minded person who's not sexually warped or dwells in the gutter :)

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  • There's nothing wrong with being asexual. Just focus on what's important to you. Success is what really matters, and it can't be achieved by washing your mouth out with semen, not unless you're Kim Kardashian, that is.

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  • You don't know unless you try. You should probably try to think less about this.

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  • From your IIN I'm not sure if you are saying that you are not into the idea of any kind of sex with a man or if its just oral you find unattractive.

    If its just oral you find unattractive I would say that's totally normal, in my opinion oral is weird, personally the idea is hot but its never actually done anything for me.

    If it's any sex with a man that you find unattractive, perhaps your just not into sex right now, as others have said, perhaps you're asexual.

    Out of curiosity how do you feel about a guy (of course one you are into) preforming oral on you?

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  • I know it is aggravating to not have a dick too suck

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  • It is not common, but it is not abnormal. Quick example: what percentage of men would WANT, or even be WILLING to suck another man's dick?

    Why should this be any different for a woman?

    Yes, most men love the idea, and many women enjoy doing it. Similarly, most women love the sensation of receiving oral sex, but some men (and, apparently, most women) do NOT enjoy doing it. To each his or her own.

    Nobody can, or should attempt to, make you want to do something that you do not enjoy. If someone does, move on to another.

    Perhaps, if the conditions were right, you may be surprised to find it arousing, whether with a man or a woman. If not, simply acknowledge that "oral" is not "your thing".

    Some people like it, some do not.

    You are just you. Some people like fried liver, some people gag at the thought. Nobody judges either side of THAT issue, but people seem to judge others, regarding sexual "tastes". I've never understood that hypocrisy.

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  • I only fuck the throats of chopped off heads and watch the jizz spray out of their mouths onto the mirror.

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  • I probably shouldn't tell you about this, but girls in pornos, swallow cum from a whole bunch of different guy's, after the cameras stop rolling they puke it all back up again.

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