I feel guilty for saying no to friendship. IIN?

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  • Absolutely! A clean break is a lot easier and much less cruel that the long lingering death of a love. Perhaps after several years, if you both have moved on to other relationships you could rekindle the friendship.

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    • I agree: the only times I've seen former lovers end up as friends is when there's been a break between the end of the lover relationship and the friendship.

      In theory, lovers (as opposed to sex buddies) would have enough in common and enough mutual affection to remain friends after they stop being sexual lovers, but in practice it's a hard thing to do.

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    • Thank you for that

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