It's normal to feel that way and I do too, even if the person had it coming. I think you just have to tell yourself that you did what you had to and that if they hadn't have overstepped their boundaries with you or taken advantage of you, you wouldn't have needed to be so firm with them. You teach people how to treat you, and that includes demanding basic respect.
I feel bad when I have to be mean to someone
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It's normal to feel that way and I do too, even if the person had it coming. I think you just have to tell yourself that you did what you had to and that if they hadn't have overstepped their boundaries with you or taken advantage of you, you wouldn't have needed to be so firm with them. You teach people how to treat you, and that includes demanding basic respect.