I fantasize about being loved by a killer?

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I don't know. I dont find killing people erotic, it's a sad and disgusting thing. But I often think of Mafia bosses and killers (not real ones, ones I make up. Attractive and young ones haha), and having relationships with them. Is this weird/unusual? I'm only nineteen and everyone else my age likes Twilight but I prefer 'A horrible way to die' and mafia movies. I'd rather be in the mafia than becoming a vampire. I feel like if I talk to people my age about this, they'll be weirded out.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago | pl

    It's not that uncommon. Some people become penpals with dangerous criminals and find themselves very attracted to them. I don't know anything really about the psychology of it. Whether it's that they want to save them, or that they're turned on by someone who follows their own rules to the extent of taking another's life, or whether danger is just exciting.

    If it works for you as a fantasy, that's great. I don't need to point out that it might be dangerous to make it come true, though. Apart from a bit of roleplaying.

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    • admirer
      11 years ago | pl

      "Whether it's that they want to save them, or that they're turned on by someone who follows their own rules to the extent of taking another's life, or whether danger is just exciting."
      Very nice. I think you're exactly right, dappled.

      Fantasize on, sweetheart. No harm in it.
      Further more, if you're concerned what your friend would think, you can
      a) Not tell them. It's YOUR fantasy, after all.
      b) Tell them & if they give you shit for it, elaborate on just how pathetic this obsession with sparkly, emasculate, fictional blood-suckers is.

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  • bobbert
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes. It is natural for a women to be attracted to a strong, powerful male. Look at EVERY single other mammal. The powerful ones get girls and get offspring, the weak ones are left forever alone and die. It's part of natural selection so that the strong ones are born to be able to hunt, survive, etc. Of course, we are on a much smaller scale, the weak ones aren't ALWAYS alone and can live well still.

    ...Unfortunately for me I'm on of those forever alone ones :(

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  • Faceless
    11 years ago | pl

    I fantasize about being gang raped by a nfl cheer leader squad. No! dont put those pom poms there! NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

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  • squirrelgirl
    11 years ago | pl

    It's pretty commonplace. Why else do you think shows like Dexter are so popular? And I won't even get started on the horror movie fangirls who think that Freddy and/or Jason are hot...

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  • SubtleRain
    11 years ago | pl

    Fantasizing never did anything wrong for anyone until they tried to make the fantasies come true, so dream of it all you'd like. I personally don't see any harm in it =]

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  • Just1question
    11 years ago | pl

    Hybristophilia - Seriously, look it up, sounds like you.

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