No matter how much you love her and how much she loves you, one person isn't enough to resolve a deep-seated problem in someone's life like heroin addiction. You can't help people just by giving them your love, because they need support from all the other parts of their life too (friends, family, job etc.) before they can change. Change has to be holistic, and you can never be the whole of someone's life.
I wish you luck, but I wouldn't hold out hope that she can be helped just by your love. And you've got to think about your own feelings; it would hurt me a lot to see the person I loved systematically destroying themselves every day.
I fall in love with a girl addicted to heroin
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No matter how much you love her and how much she loves you, one person isn't enough to resolve a deep-seated problem in someone's life like heroin addiction. You can't help people just by giving them your love, because they need support from all the other parts of their life too (friends, family, job etc.) before they can change. Change has to be holistic, and you can never be the whole of someone's life.
I wish you luck, but I wouldn't hold out hope that she can be helped just by your love. And you've got to think about your own feelings; it would hurt me a lot to see the person I loved systematically destroying themselves every day.