I enjoy recieving and giving pain. is this right?

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okay so.. i've always been rather out of the ordinary and i'm quite different from alot of other kids. but one thing that i'm not sure is "normal", is the fact that.. well.. i LOVE being hurt. for example i have an ex, that used to get me by the throat, and i used to provoke her alot but she didnt know i was provoking her she just thought it was me acting me, but to tell the truth, i LOVED her hand squeezing down on my throat.. i KNOW thats not right, but i'd like some advice, or maybe for someone to comment that shares my story? i love to be dominated.. to feel like someone or something has power over me, and i have to try and look cute, or cry or scream to get myself out of the situation.. and also, she punched me too, and i liked it. strangly enough. plus i always fantisise over being raped, or watching people get raped.. and i dunno, i always feel like i don't want things to run smoothly. i love drama, and arguing at the early hours. as i have done many times before in the street and crying and making it all dramatic..

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  • doddeman
    14 years ago

    You are something as trivial as a machochist. Find yourself a good and honest sadist that enjoy inflicting pain on you as a way of having sex. Have fun!

    By all Means avoid psychopaths that are in the game to hurt you for real.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      it means you are masochistic and seto masochistic the acts of hurting yourself being hurt and hurting others and watching others be hurt for pelasure or excitement .

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    Its S & M ...its kinky and normal as long as the other person is into it too

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  • mişah
    13 years ago

    bdsm...

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  • kamaroso
    14 years ago

    i think this is normal, i also love to feel dominated and i did the same to my ex... he was really tough so sometimes i liked to piss him off or just provoke him so he got tough to me.... i found it sexy!

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    • kamaroso
      14 years ago

      and just as a suggestion be sure the next girl u date is kinda tough too... cause if shes not ure gonna get bored... it happened to me

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  • 123Blahblahblah
    14 years ago

    It is very normal to want to be dominated, i think everyone likes pain to some extent.. well i do anyway. When i was goin out with my ex-girlfriend she would hold me down, scratch and bite me, i thought it was so sexy. She got really turned on when i did it to her as well.

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  • Alaskaraven
    14 years ago

    Many of us like drama. But not too much, not too often, or it makes life a bitch. And pain? In the bedroom, yes...

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  • eagle
    14 years ago

    theres nothing wrong with this, just dont let the pain go too far and make sure your partner agrees with it, and maybe try bondage

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