You are sounding a bit resentful. But your previous batch of friends were inconsiderate of you and shared little in common though they obviously valued what you had to offer them.
I think your problem may be that it takes longer to meet and cultivate friendships at certain levels. Being part of a party gang is easy. Having friends with shared values and common interests way beyond that gets more difficult.
I guess you have to fish where the fish are: try to meet people who are doing what you are doing etc., reach out, take risks, join clubs, plus don't give up - keep trying. That will work.
I don't know what having a boyfriend has to do with anything - though often couples share friends as couples.
I dont really have friends
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You are sounding a bit resentful. But your previous batch of friends were inconsiderate of you and shared little in common though they obviously valued what you had to offer them.
I think your problem may be that it takes longer to meet and cultivate friendships at certain levels. Being part of a party gang is easy. Having friends with shared values and common interests way beyond that gets more difficult.
I guess you have to fish where the fish are: try to meet people who are doing what you are doing etc., reach out, take risks, join clubs, plus don't give up - keep trying. That will work.
I don't know what having a boyfriend has to do with anything - though often couples share friends as couples.