I dont know what to do with my feelings for my ex!

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I broke up with a guy because I just felt like I needed to work on myself before I get into a serious relationship. Plus my ex didn't seem like he was ready to date again either(he was being immature). But now that we are apart I think about him constantly! I deleted him from Facebook and msn to help but it doesn't work! So I texted him because I couldn't help myself. It felt nice talking to him because I missed him. But I dont even know if he wants to be friends, he said he did but he never texts me... well I kinda told him to stay away from me. I just feel like he is the one and only time will tell. But I just dont know what to do for now???

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    Cremate the body?

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  • Ike
    13 years ago | pl

    if you are friends with him it will always be an on again/ off again relationship. you will find someone who will appreciate you. obvi he did something that really made you mad so chances are he will do it again.

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  • MrsAdams
    13 years ago | pl

    I believe you should just walk away because it is very hard to be just friends with someone you have strong feelings for. Think of how it will feel if you guys are friends and he's with another woman. It's going to hurt like hell. Be careful with your heart but especially your sanity.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago | pl

    I know your right but I still wanted to be his friend. Or should I just forget about that?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Go back to counseling. You stood up for yourself & ended a relationship that you knew was going nowhere & yet now you are back in there re-thinking it all & second-guessing yourself?

    Stand by your first decision, focus on yourself, and move on without regret or looking back.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    I respect the reason that you broke up with him but...

    You break up with a guy, delete them from your life, tell them to stay away, and then wonder why he doesn't contact you? Why would he want to be friends with someone that sends such mixed signals.

    I'm a woman but, Jesus, women really are insane :)

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  • faisoly
    13 years ago | pl

    Well < IF you want him DO It NOW ! But if not DOnt be friends

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