I dont know how to feel attractive without make up?

Well its not like I used a shit ton like those high maintenance chicks but tbh I feel very unattractive with out any make up.
I do have a baby face and look age 20 even though I'm like 26.
None the less, I don't really know how some females feel okay with out wearing any make up at all?
I know my sis judges some women with bo make up saying the look plain so basically I wear foundation and mascara when going out as I don't want to be judged as " plain jane"

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Feeling attractive is about your perspective. Im sure you have nice features that make you attractive. Your eyes are probably pretty, not your eyelashes. Your smile is probably beautiful, not your foundation.
    If youre a good person you will be attractive. If youre a bad person it doesnt matter how much effort you out into your appearance, you will be ugly because people will become more focused on your flaws. So yeah, love yourself, be kind to yourself and be kind to others and youll feel more attractive and be more attractive. ❤️

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    • Ah brilliantly said thannk youu

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  • I think that's pretty common especially in your 20s. I have the same problem but have started wearing less and less makeup, often I just fill in my eyebrows and put on mascara and that's it.
    I have a babyface too but really that's a good thing, you'll always look young as long as you take care of yourself, make sure you take care of your skin. Personally I almost never wear foundation, I don't think it's good for the skin.

    Looking plain doesn't have to be a bad thing. Plain is still attractive. A lot of people are so intimidated by model-looks that they prefer an average looking partner anyways, I believe studies have shown this as well and I know it's true for myself. Us women need to realize that what we see on social media is mostly lies. Most women use subtle filters and nowadays you can even have filters in videos that alter your face or entire body.

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    • Yes thanks so much doll !!!
      Well I never liked the filters tbh and I wouldn't want people to thinkI look like someone that im not...but I guess I feel like if I wear a bit of mascara I feel a whole lot better tha not wearing anything at all and feeling just plain jane ig

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  • primrose576239

    i know it can be a bit challenging for some people to love themselves for who they are, but its possible
    we should come to terms with the fact that this is the body we have from the beginning, and tbh could you really hate your features so much that you'll go get surgery? nope
    a small advice form my side is to minimalize the makeup which you use day by day or week by week, and slowly get used to how you naturally look.
    i dont usually wear makeup much, and i console myself by telling myself "okay, this is how i naturally look and i'm fine with it, i don't have to be perfect all the time, so people might as well get used to it. what's the worst case scenario? they dont like my face? well its their problem then."
    hope this helped :)

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  • rockyrocks

    i’m 19 F, and i have a great aversion to makeup. the first and only time i tried it, i cried. it just isn’t for me.

    i think the pressure of looking attractive even when not seeking a partner is just… really heavy on women. it makes sense that people want to pressure you to wear makeup

    just wear what makes you feel happy in your own skin. if that means wearing makeup, then wear makeup. if it doesn’t, don’t

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    • Thanks doll x

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    You don't know how some females feel okay with out wearing any make up at all? I feel okay without it because I don't care about what other people think. I'm 33 and life is too short to be focusing on what strangers think. Besides, any adult that gets uppity about my appearance really needs to rethink their priorities.
    :)
    If you want to wear it, wear it, but only if it makes YOU happy. No need to focus on what some random weirdo on the street thinks of you.

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    • Thansk very much:)

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        You're welcome.
        :)

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  • fatok

    Women look so much better without makeup. Take Lady Gaga, she is beautiful without makeup

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    • techpc

      Naturally pretty women look better without it. Some of those posts you see where women with a "natural look" is just using makeup to achieve it.

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      • Like Kirsten Stewart shes SO pretty! Not sure if she uses natural make up but in Twilight shes pretty plane Jane and really cute

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