First of all, you probably don't even look that bad.
Secondly, due to an arguably sexist move by the rules of life, even if you're hideous, you're arguably in way better shape than a straight woman of similar appearance.
Start paying attention to how often you see a woman with a man less attractive than her and how often you see a man with a woman less attractive than him. Obviously both situations happen but it's almost always the woman who is more attractive. Women aren't made with a cookie cutter, but it's hard to deny that on average they seem way less focused on looks than the average man is.
I'm not angelifying them here either. They can be just as shallow as a guy who is 100% focused on looks, but even shallow women are more likely to be extra fussed about money, social status, "power", and such more than looks. It's just usually not as important to them.
So while you're probably not even ugly, if you are, you still have a great shot at finding love. Find a woman you share a hobby or interest with. Make her laugh, but only by being yourself. Make her feel like you're a good guy and she can be safe and comfortable with you, but without being desperate or a pushover. Not only will they come to like you but they'll probably even start seeing you as cute.
If you're truly unattractive, I'm not going to lie to you and say it's not a disadvantage of sorts, but it would also be a huge lie to say that it's impossible or even unlikely for you to find love when you certainly can. Happens all the time.
(And any women reading this who feel unattractive, you're almost certainly not as unattractive as you think, seeing as how women tend to be harder on their own image. I'm not full of shit so I won't take back what I said about it arguably being a bigger disadvantage for women than men, but men aren't made with cookie cutters either.
Some men aren't shallow. In a way, just for not looking like what the media says you should look like, you get to enjoy a filter that cuts out guys who would have only wanted you for that if you did and it saves you from some guaranteed heartbreak.
Maybe there's a certain guy you like and you always see him date barbies. Well I assure you that guys can get really fucking tired of dating women with horrible attitudes who have been ruined by their own classically good looks and when these men finally experience a woman who is actually wanting love and looking to love, she seems like such an exotic being to him that she quickly becomes the most beautiful woman he's ever seen.)
I'm ugly and I've been told that by every woman I've ever met, so it's over and I think they're right and I can see why they think that. It's ok. They're not shallow or mean, it's normal for girl to be attracted and interested in looks. And there are literaly millions of average looking guys so why would someone settle and pick one of the worst like me? It's not their fault. It's mine's and maybe my parent's for making such a ugly piece of garbage.
I don't want to live anymore bc I'll never experience love. IIN?
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I've got some good news for.
First of all, you probably don't even look that bad.
Secondly, due to an arguably sexist move by the rules of life, even if you're hideous, you're arguably in way better shape than a straight woman of similar appearance.
Start paying attention to how often you see a woman with a man less attractive than her and how often you see a man with a woman less attractive than him. Obviously both situations happen but it's almost always the woman who is more attractive. Women aren't made with a cookie cutter, but it's hard to deny that on average they seem way less focused on looks than the average man is.
I'm not angelifying them here either. They can be just as shallow as a guy who is 100% focused on looks, but even shallow women are more likely to be extra fussed about money, social status, "power", and such more than looks. It's just usually not as important to them.
So while you're probably not even ugly, if you are, you still have a great shot at finding love. Find a woman you share a hobby or interest with. Make her laugh, but only by being yourself. Make her feel like you're a good guy and she can be safe and comfortable with you, but without being desperate or a pushover. Not only will they come to like you but they'll probably even start seeing you as cute.
If you're truly unattractive, I'm not going to lie to you and say it's not a disadvantage of sorts, but it would also be a huge lie to say that it's impossible or even unlikely for you to find love when you certainly can. Happens all the time.
(And any women reading this who feel unattractive, you're almost certainly not as unattractive as you think, seeing as how women tend to be harder on their own image. I'm not full of shit so I won't take back what I said about it arguably being a bigger disadvantage for women than men, but men aren't made with cookie cutters either.
Some men aren't shallow. In a way, just for not looking like what the media says you should look like, you get to enjoy a filter that cuts out guys who would have only wanted you for that if you did and it saves you from some guaranteed heartbreak.
Maybe there's a certain guy you like and you always see him date barbies. Well I assure you that guys can get really fucking tired of dating women with horrible attitudes who have been ruined by their own classically good looks and when these men finally experience a woman who is actually wanting love and looking to love, she seems like such an exotic being to him that she quickly becomes the most beautiful woman he's ever seen.)
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I'm ugly and I've been told that by every woman I've ever met, so it's over and I think they're right and I can see why they think that. It's ok. They're not shallow or mean, it's normal for girl to be attracted and interested in looks. And there are literaly millions of average looking guys so why would someone settle and pick one of the worst like me? It's not their fault. It's mine's and maybe my parent's for making such a ugly piece of garbage.
I know it's over. But still it hurts.