> "They think love is holding hands and having sex and kissing but no, thats not love"
I know that my zero experience makes me idealize love and relationships but I know it's not a daily fairytale. I believe love is about to people who are fine by themselves but who love each other and decide to be together and share their lifes. And not just be lovers but also friends and help each other and be there when the other needs it. It's so amazing and magic and I envy (not in a resentful way) normal people to be able to experience it.
> "If you ever feel to ugly, just remember Danny DeVito has a wife, and so did Louie CK"
If they weren't famous or had money they'll be alone. Guaranteed
Listen, this is all I'm saying, love can be found in different aspects of life. Finding a partner is a way but theres so many other ways. No girl or human has ever made me feel the same way when i'm on stage playing music, or when I explore abandoned buildings. Thats true love, and that love gives me purpose in life other than finding a woman to fill the gaping hole in my heart. once you fixe that, then women will come to you eventually. You keep building this relationship thing so high up and then simultaneously break yourself down to nothing. It's a recipe for disaster.
also, Louie was in the shitter before he became a famous standup comic. He was writing for conan and other shows, most of them cancelled (and conan was at the brink of being cancelled too) and he only broke out later in his life with his jokes about father hood. Also just look around the street: not everyone whos in a relationship is a model. I've seen plenty of average to ugly guys with pretty girls, which makes me wonder how "tf did he land that?". The answer is simple, she liked him as a person.
You have to stop being so harsh on yourself and idealise this thing that really, is over rated. Relationships aren't that good in itself. It's only something valuable when you feel love, and if you can't find love in the world how the hell are you gonna find it in a woman? Find love, within yourself and around you. In your family in friends. and if you feel self conscious go work out, get a nice haircut and start dressing well. Seriously, it's like magic. Thats the only reason a guy looking like me could get some level of attraction from some girls. Good luck.
I don't want to live anymore bc I'll never experience love. IIN?
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> "They think love is holding hands and having sex and kissing but no, thats not love"
I know that my zero experience makes me idealize love and relationships but I know it's not a daily fairytale. I believe love is about to people who are fine by themselves but who love each other and decide to be together and share their lifes. And not just be lovers but also friends and help each other and be there when the other needs it. It's so amazing and magic and I envy (not in a resentful way) normal people to be able to experience it.
> "If you ever feel to ugly, just remember Danny DeVito has a wife, and so did Louie CK"
If they weren't famous or had money they'll be alone. Guaranteed
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Listen, this is all I'm saying, love can be found in different aspects of life. Finding a partner is a way but theres so many other ways. No girl or human has ever made me feel the same way when i'm on stage playing music, or when I explore abandoned buildings. Thats true love, and that love gives me purpose in life other than finding a woman to fill the gaping hole in my heart. once you fixe that, then women will come to you eventually. You keep building this relationship thing so high up and then simultaneously break yourself down to nothing. It's a recipe for disaster.
also, Louie was in the shitter before he became a famous standup comic. He was writing for conan and other shows, most of them cancelled (and conan was at the brink of being cancelled too) and he only broke out later in his life with his jokes about father hood. Also just look around the street: not everyone whos in a relationship is a model. I've seen plenty of average to ugly guys with pretty girls, which makes me wonder how "tf did he land that?". The answer is simple, she liked him as a person.
You have to stop being so harsh on yourself and idealise this thing that really, is over rated. Relationships aren't that good in itself. It's only something valuable when you feel love, and if you can't find love in the world how the hell are you gonna find it in a woman? Find love, within yourself and around you. In your family in friends. and if you feel self conscious go work out, get a nice haircut and start dressing well. Seriously, it's like magic. Thats the only reason a guy looking like me could get some level of attraction from some girls. Good luck.