I don't understand why guys don't like me?

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I like this guy and im pretty, i guess. And he doesn't seem to like me. He dated a girl that was taller than him. I'm taller than him and pretty like her. Why can't he date me, i would literally write a paragraph about him, and even cry for him. Im shy and she has a lot of friends, so that's probably why. I really don't understand. He probably doesn't even think about me. Now i just feel icky and sad.

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago | pl

    This is what I don't understand. Why do girls not tell guys they like that they are into them? It breaks down so many unneccessary walls.

    Girl - "I like you"
    Guy - "Aww that's cute, thanks"
    Girl - "No, I LIKE you"
    Guy - "Really?"
    Girl - "Yes"

    -Next day-

    Guy - "So, about what you said yesterday, about liking me and stuff..."
    Girl - "Yes..."
    Guy - "Well, it made me really think about you a lot, so I wondered if you wanted to go for a drink some time?"
    Girl - "OMG are you kidding me?!?! Sure!!!"

    Then go have a drink and fuck eachother senseless later that night.

    BOOM! Done.

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    • lordofopinions
      5 years ago

      Very good! You took the words right out of my mouth.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      This sums it up perfectly.

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  • bigbudchonga
    5 years ago

    This is a tough one. Sometimes people just aren't attracted to people. Have you tried giving him a pretty obvious sign, like put some physical contact in there, that might do the trick.

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  • Angelandme
    5 years ago

    If love was a person they'd be calling you a coward.

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  • strangethingshappen
    5 years ago

    Why care about a guy who will probably end up cheating on his gf anyway

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      You don't know that for sure, besides what if he's not interested in OP because he doesn't have anything in common with her?

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      Wow holy shit you're some pessimistic piece of shit aren't you? Do you have "Men are Pigs" tattoo'd on your arm too?

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      • strangethingshappen
        5 years ago

        Yes I have it tattoo'd on me arms :)

        FYI your defensive reaction says everything. Congrats for understanding me

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          It says that I STRONGLY disagree. I've known more women who cheated on men than the other way around. People cheat in general, women aren't saints in the matter.

          I've also known plenty of men and women, myself included who don't. Generalizing your own experience with males to an entire sex is extremely narrow minded.

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          • strangethingshappen
            5 years ago

            I'm not being narrow minded, I'm being honest

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Most people leave shy people alone because they figure there is some reason they are standoffish.

    Why not approach him talk to him. It's ok for you to ask him out.

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  • Bobtailcatgirl
    5 years ago

    There are more fish in the sea darling.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    As if he's the only man in the world?
    Move on, don't fixate.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    You're just shy or something, just address the guy a bit, show him your interest, peck his cheek. Be cute to him. If he's attracted to you, things will happen on it's own. If he's not, that's not the end of the world either. It happens.

    Just remember though that some guys just don't initiate. They're shy or they're scared or they're just not the type to do that. It's perfectly okay to start things yourself.

    A bullet not fired always misses.

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  • Teenage-twisted-reject
    5 years ago

    HOLd tHE fORT dOwN NoT eVeryOne waNTs tO dATe U cALL ThE pOPO AND rUNNnnnnn

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    • CDmale4fem
      5 years ago

      Is it just me that finds that sort of typing annoying and irritating as hell. And besides it just looks kinda stupid.

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      • nikkiclaire
        5 years ago

        I am pretty sure that's their point.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Forget about him; he ain't worth your tears, chica... but none of em are worth your tears.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      That's some pessimistic bull.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Not really. A person who makes one cry is a waste of time.

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          He didn't even do anything.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            This is true actually. He hasn't really done anything except mind his own business, and not notice her. It's certainly not a crime to not notice someone, nor reciprocate any romantic interest, and I'll always believe as such.

            However, I would say my comments are really more about trying to encourage OP to forget about this person, and move on with her life than attempting to disparage or berate this guy. If OP chooses to wake up bright and early one morning, and put her rabid infatuation for this guy behind her it will do her a world of good, but not harm him in the least. Maybe the reason he's not into her is that they have no shared interests? Maybe they're just not compatible. Life is about more than just bring pretty.

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    Post pics plz.

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  • LucilleAustero99
    5 years ago

    He's either a shallow prick douchebag who actually thinks there's an airbrushed perfect woman waiting to suck him off. Either that or he's gay. Men are delusional idiots!

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      He barely talked to the girl and she hasn't exactly shown interest herself.

      On top of that, just because you are a female does not mean you are entitled to the affection of the man of your choice. That's some straight up sexism right there.

      If anything, you're the one who sounds delusional here.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        No one is ever entitled to have the object of his or her affection reciprocate their interest. The majority of people are so selfish, entitled and completely devoid of insight with regard to such matters.

        If I had a dollar for everytime someone claimed to be "in love" with some poor, unsuspecting soul when in fact what they're experiencing is simply a crush or infatuation I would be a very rich woman!

        Sadly a vast majority of people insist on labeling their desperate and obsessive base desires as love. Just because someone is beautiful or handsome is not a reason to proclaim the delusion of being in love to rest of us. Many people who think they are in love are actually just experiencing mind numbing lust for some poor unsuspecting person.

        Finally I want to assert that neither are males entitled to the affection of the woman of their choice. Regardless of sex, or orientation there are way too many people on the planet who get all jazzed up about someone they have crush on, and are even daft enough to proclaim that they are in love with the person only to turn all hateful and booty-hurt when the person either does not reciprocate their interest or outright rejects them. That's not real love it's just a childish crush at best, and an obsessive infatuation at worst.

        Sorry for my crazy rant.

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          Just a rant, not crazy.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            Thanks.

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