Exactly. I never understood the appeal of it until I met a Dom. Gradually he got into my head & I eventually stopped being stubborn & just let him take control of me. He tells me who I can see and punishes me if I go against his rules, but the act of relinquishing all control is very liberating. My Dom has helped me so much as he stops me every time I go to put myself down. Trust is definitely the most important factor. It takes me ages to trust anyone but now I realize my Master somehow knows me better than I know myself and he only does what’s best for me.
I don't understand masochism at all. What's hot about being a victim?
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Exactly. I never understood the appeal of it until I met a Dom. Gradually he got into my head & I eventually stopped being stubborn & just let him take control of me. He tells me who I can see and punishes me if I go against his rules, but the act of relinquishing all control is very liberating. My Dom has helped me so much as he stops me every time I go to put myself down. Trust is definitely the most important factor. It takes me ages to trust anyone but now I realize my Master somehow knows me better than I know myself and he only does what’s best for me.