That's another thing, what if the relationship doesn't work out? Puts so much stress on both partners that you cant know for sure whether youll be able to withstand it. Then the kid grows up with divorced parents, which is lame. I get told that I'll change my mind too. It makes want to tell people to go fuck themselves. That's like telling someone who has kids that they should've aborted them. It's no one else's choice and bugging a person about it is not helpful.
I don't think children are worth the effort
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That's another thing, what if the relationship doesn't work out? Puts so much stress on both partners that you cant know for sure whether youll be able to withstand it. Then the kid grows up with divorced parents, which is lame. I get told that I'll change my mind too. It makes want to tell people to go fuck themselves. That's like telling someone who has kids that they should've aborted them. It's no one else's choice and bugging a person about it is not helpful.