For me it's a matter of having someone in my life who completes me. I know, it sounds so silly, but with my wife the two of us are more than two halves of one person, we almost become a super person. Everyone has faults and we each have our prejudices and blind spots to things about us in life. With the input from my partner, I'm able to see through my blind spots and prejudices, comprehending things in a way I never could have, alone.
Tackling a repair project on the boat, we share ideas and can come up with a solution that neither of us would have, independently.
I've always joked that I'm a better half a couple than I am a single person.
Perhaps you are thinking of being overly dependent on another person. I can function quite well alone, but I believe I function better with a partner. It isn't a dependency, it a team.
I don't really understand relationships
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For me it's a matter of having someone in my life who completes me. I know, it sounds so silly, but with my wife the two of us are more than two halves of one person, we almost become a super person. Everyone has faults and we each have our prejudices and blind spots to things about us in life. With the input from my partner, I'm able to see through my blind spots and prejudices, comprehending things in a way I never could have, alone.
Tackling a repair project on the boat, we share ideas and can come up with a solution that neither of us would have, independently.
I've always joked that I'm a better half a couple than I am a single person.
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I have read that needing someone to complete you is unhealthy. This heightens my confusion.
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Perhaps you are thinking of being overly dependent on another person. I can function quite well alone, but I believe I function better with a partner. It isn't a dependency, it a team.