I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
I married a beautiful lady... and she became more beautiful and developed a stronger self image and positive attitude because of how I treated her - and I know that it's because of how I treated her. I've seen many times in my life the results of what happens when people treat ladies poorly and great (like I did); although I admit that it took a few decades of being an adult and trying different things with different girlfriends to catch on as to what to do to get great results. Us husbands control far more than you think.
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I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
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Tldr.
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Tldr = Lazy
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= Too long.
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You've responded to longer post in this thread.
No I think it's more basic - related to who you are as a person.
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I think your comments show who YOU are as a person.
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Of course. It's true for both.
I married a beautiful lady... and she became more beautiful and developed a stronger self image and positive attitude because of how I treated her - and I know that it's because of how I treated her. I've seen many times in my life the results of what happens when people treat ladies poorly and great (like I did); although I admit that it took a few decades of being an adult and trying different things with different girlfriends to catch on as to what to do to get great results. Us husbands control far more than you think.