I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
I don't love my wife anymore
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Why did you marry your wife then?
It sounds like you did not marry for looks, other abilities, and that you had no shared dreams and goals.
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Because she used to look decent.
Now that i've answered your question, why don't you answer mine, hm?
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I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
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Tldr.
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Tldr = Lazy
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= Too long.
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You've responded to longer post in this thread.
No I think it's more basic - related to who you are as a person.