Did you marry her just for her looks and sex. Or did you marry her because the two of you shared goals and dreams toghether and looked forward to a mutually successful life together.
Marriage has almost nothing to do with how the body looks, as that changes.
The love that you had at the beginnig is still there... if you wish to rekindle it.
I suggest that you read the book "The 5 love languages" by Gary Chapman.
Get your wife a copy so she can read it as well.
You will both read it at different rates... that is OK.
Then get your act together and rebuild your love together.
What is with you always preaching about dreams and goals? Like, dude, do you have a fetish for it or something!?
And do you have a fetish for this book? Do you touch yourself to the author or something? Btw the book is not going to change how much of an ugly troll my wife looks.
I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
I don't love my wife anymore
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Did you marry her just for her looks and sex. Or did you marry her because the two of you shared goals and dreams toghether and looked forward to a mutually successful life together.
Marriage has almost nothing to do with how the body looks, as that changes.
The love that you had at the beginnig is still there... if you wish to rekindle it.
I suggest that you read the book "The 5 love languages" by Gary Chapman.
Get your wife a copy so she can read it as well.
You will both read it at different rates... that is OK.
Then get your act together and rebuild your love together.
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What is with you always preaching about dreams and goals? Like, dude, do you have a fetish for it or something!?
And do you have a fetish for this book? Do you touch yourself to the author or something? Btw the book is not going to change how much of an ugly troll my wife looks.
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Why did you marry your wife then?
It sounds like you did not marry for looks, other abilities, and that you had no shared dreams and goals.
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Because she used to look decent.
Now that i've answered your question, why don't you answer mine, hm?
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I recommend that book a lot because my experience is that it has fixed more relationship issues than all the previous and other relationship books out there.
Gary Chapman identified something very fundamental that no one else noticed.
It is my understanding that all marriage (and SO relationship) counselors recommend that book as well.
Why not get it, read it, and learn something else about love and caring that you likely do not know...
You just might find that your marriage gets a lot better (and she starts looking a lot better as a result: the partner often has a major effect on how the other looks over time - and her looking more ugly in your eyes is most likely on you - and you can reverse that by treating her better). But, you have to want that to happen.
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Tldr.
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