I don't like penises

I don't like penises. I'm glad men have them because sex feels great. But I hate to touch them so hand jobs and oral are a huge struggle. I try to not look at it like a chore but I just hate it and it makes me very irritated when my boy friend wants me to touch him.

I tried to look up why but nothing was really how I feel.

I have a sex drive

I have self esteem and am comfortable with my body

Penises don't scare me

I'm not a lesbian because I think vaginas are gross too

You input would be greatly appreciated!!

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  • ViolenceAgainstTheState

    Nobody likes penises. The idea that anyone does is a huge myth perpetrated by pornography. That whole eunuch thing - about chopping part of a boy's genitalia off so that he has a nice singing voice? Think about it rationally. Of course you wouldn't do that. You'd do it because his genitalia is so ugly, it frightened three of the horses and they, in turn, started singing in human voices out of pure fear. Even today, one of those horses is Barbra Streisand.

    Nobody wants this kind of world!

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  • tripw7

    Well, the opposite sex is normally very much into penises and vaginas and all that goes with human sex. Guys masturbate normally at least once per day from the time they are mature in puberty. I understand girls are pretty much the same.
    You may be a little different but everyone has there own choice in life.
    Maybe you bf has not give you enough options to satisfy him and maybe you need some direction on the subject.

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    • Anime7

      This.

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  • delling

    I'd say it's relatively normal. A lot of women just like penises for the physical sensation rather than as an object of lust in itself.

    I am a gay man and although I appreciate penises and love giving oral, it took me a while to really like looking at them (like, age 22 or something), and they're still relatively low on my list of "parts."

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  • eu1979

    You should try to get used to touch them.
    My wife doesn't quite have a problem with mine, but hates giving oral, and now that you mention, she doesn't touch it that much either.
    Now, as you may guess, this doesn't make me feel that great. And lots of time i just think we are really not meant for each other (not only because of this, but it's part because of this).
    Unless you find a guy who doesn't like a good bj, it's going to be a problem sooner or later...

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  • Tommythecat.

    B===D

    :)

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  • Mister_Nobody

    My penis is really a great guy once you get to know him. You're just a little shy, that's all.

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  • dom180

    Some people are grossed out by genitals, even those of people they are otherwise attracted to. It's perfectly common, although I can't empathise since I really like the look of vaginas and penises :P One of my hypotheses is that lot of people are conditioned as a child to find them gross; seeing genitals is often considered inappropriate for a child so they are taught not to like the look of them.

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  • thegypsysailor

    I love my little feller.
    I find your post very, very sad. Both you and your man are missing some of the most wonderfully fun things in life, especially if you can't enjoy pleasing him. I hope he doesn't feel that way about your sex parts.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    maybe you will change your mind when your sexual peak happens

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  • DarkestMoon

    I don't like penises because I like vaginas. I'm a girl.

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  • brock

    Wow have no idea how to answer that one. I can say I went to school with a gal who thought that not only was a mans penis ugly but that the male body was ugly. She also thought that a womans body was beautiful. She was not lez or bi but as stright as they come. I still keep in touch with her. She's married with a family now, loves sex and still thinks the penis is an ugly piece of art. I truely hope that most women will disagree with both her and you. It would be extreemly dificult for me to get an erection if I thought the lady I was trying to get it on with thought my penis was ugly.

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  • kaegrl23

    maybe u just got a gross one hunny!! im sorry i dont have that problem i enjoy them! maybe u should go to the sex shop and get some flavored lube! it will make oral sex tasty and more enjoyable. i recommend blueberry because its sexalicious!;)

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  • missy100

    I can't remember a penis I didn't like. If it fun and games, all is good and exciting.

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  • JayPr'zBaddest

    Yeah some penises arent that nice looking... only met one man in my life with a pretty penis lmfaooo

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  • Thatguy777

    Oral is great

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