If you married him, you should stand by him thick and thin, if your friends disrespect him, they disrespect you. You're suppose to be the person he spends the rest of his life with, the one, and if you treat him like that, you're not a good choice. It sounds like you married way too soon, you're not in high school anymore, don't try to be "cool" and popular. He is who he is, if you don't like him the way he is, why did you marry him? Do you realize how much you put him down when you say he is not good enough to be around your male friends? He is suppose to be the #1 male in your life. Keep at what you're doing, separate him from your friends, be with them while he is away, but where do you think he will be at that time? It takes only one woman to show him that not every woman is like you, and some might actually treat him nice and be proud to be with him.
There's nothing wrong with HIM, it's his social skills. It's his social skills that are embarrassing me, and also holding him back.
Like I said in another post here, he's trying to kick the doors in and take over, and people don't take kindly to that. He also has a funny manner of relating to people, he tries to be superior all the time, he's a chronic 'story topper'. People don't tend to like that....
Everyone's opinion here is pretty much unanimous, yet you respond to everyone trying to prove that you're right. Your husband's social skills are part of who he is, if you married that, you should accept that. In no place here you say its important for you to be with your husband, only how he makes you look in front of others. He is not an accessory like a necklace or a ring. I'm saying again, you got married way too early, before you understood what marriage is.
OK, so I guess I need to give him the divorce he hasn't asked for and leave him then, because somehow I'm the first person on earth, and also a horrible person, for being embarrassed or annoyed by a loved ones behavior on occasion. I guess I better give my kids up for adoption too since they embarrassed me at Burger King the other day with their behavior.
I don't like my husband around my friends.
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If you married him, you should stand by him thick and thin, if your friends disrespect him, they disrespect you. You're suppose to be the person he spends the rest of his life with, the one, and if you treat him like that, you're not a good choice. It sounds like you married way too soon, you're not in high school anymore, don't try to be "cool" and popular. He is who he is, if you don't like him the way he is, why did you marry him? Do you realize how much you put him down when you say he is not good enough to be around your male friends? He is suppose to be the #1 male in your life. Keep at what you're doing, separate him from your friends, be with them while he is away, but where do you think he will be at that time? It takes only one woman to show him that not every woman is like you, and some might actually treat him nice and be proud to be with him.
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There's nothing wrong with HIM, it's his social skills. It's his social skills that are embarrassing me, and also holding him back.
Like I said in another post here, he's trying to kick the doors in and take over, and people don't take kindly to that. He also has a funny manner of relating to people, he tries to be superior all the time, he's a chronic 'story topper'. People don't tend to like that....
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Everyone's opinion here is pretty much unanimous, yet you respond to everyone trying to prove that you're right. Your husband's social skills are part of who he is, if you married that, you should accept that. In no place here you say its important for you to be with your husband, only how he makes you look in front of others. He is not an accessory like a necklace or a ring. I'm saying again, you got married way too early, before you understood what marriage is.
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OK, so I guess I need to give him the divorce he hasn't asked for and leave him then, because somehow I'm the first person on earth, and also a horrible person, for being embarrassed or annoyed by a loved ones behavior on occasion. I guess I better give my kids up for adoption too since they embarrassed me at Burger King the other day with their behavior.