I am ethnically Asian and I am doing my utmost to distant myself from any Chinese speakers, and to a lesser extent Asians in general, like a few mentioned above, they appear to be "money oriented", that's because they mostly don't understand social interaction mechanisms, they feel that if they have money and pay then they are cool, and you need to like them, or if you have the same skin color, then you need to befriend them. They don't understand that there's something that link between the two, i.e. the mutual exchange of money and services, the sense of belonging good memories create (which is contextual and not guaranteed for everyone). Maybe they have their reasons behind that, but the lack of ability to actually see how interpersonal relationships work make them awkward and appear rude. For them, it's "us against them" regardless of reasons, and I am not a member of "them", no matter what they think.
Note: this is not racism or xenophobia, I have met a rare few who are not like that, and they are almost always born and raised from somewhere outside of Asia, so judge people by their individual merits, or you would be just like them.
Note 2: Trust me, comparing to you, I have a much rawer deal, for no reason other than I have yellow skin. (They are MUCH more racist than you, esp. when you share the same skin color with them).
Note 3: And no, I am not embarrassed by my skin color, that's exactly my point: I don't believe that I should be judge by my color, what is anyone's business in the color I'm in? I, and anyone, should live or die on their own merits, regardless of their colors. The people who think that I'm "sucking (insert color)'s dick" can go **** themselves.
I don't like chinese people!
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I am ethnically Asian and I am doing my utmost to distant myself from any Chinese speakers, and to a lesser extent Asians in general, like a few mentioned above, they appear to be "money oriented", that's because they mostly don't understand social interaction mechanisms, they feel that if they have money and pay then they are cool, and you need to like them, or if you have the same skin color, then you need to befriend them. They don't understand that there's something that link between the two, i.e. the mutual exchange of money and services, the sense of belonging good memories create (which is contextual and not guaranteed for everyone). Maybe they have their reasons behind that, but the lack of ability to actually see how interpersonal relationships work make them awkward and appear rude. For them, it's "us against them" regardless of reasons, and I am not a member of "them", no matter what they think.
Note: this is not racism or xenophobia, I have met a rare few who are not like that, and they are almost always born and raised from somewhere outside of Asia, so judge people by their individual merits, or you would be just like them.
Note 2: Trust me, comparing to you, I have a much rawer deal, for no reason other than I have yellow skin. (They are MUCH more racist than you, esp. when you share the same skin color with them).
Note 3: And no, I am not embarrassed by my skin color, that's exactly my point: I don't believe that I should be judge by my color, what is anyone's business in the color I'm in? I, and anyone, should live or die on their own merits, regardless of their colors. The people who think that I'm "sucking (insert color)'s dick" can go **** themselves.
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