I don't like being with girls

I don't like being with girls. I find it uncomfortable. I have male friends, we hang out. I'm not gay or asexual. In my class, people "ship" 2 people together, it's only as fun like 2 dozen teens mess with each other. They "ship" me and another girl and I'm very uncomfortable with that. I have no problem talking to my sister and mother. But anyone else is a no, not even my cousins, who are a little flirty sometimes, which I don't like. Am i weird? Is this gonna affect me?

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  • Clunk42

    Is the problem actually that they're female, or that you don't know them very well? Like, I'm dreadfully uncomfortable talking to strangers, be them male or female.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    It’s normal to feel discomfort in this situation. I was briefly mildly shipped with a classmate when I was 15, some girls even tried to get us to go to a cancelled school dance together, although we got on as casual friends there were no romantic feelings and it was very awkward. Those situations can quickly start to feel disrespectful and violating.

    In terms of having no current female friends as long as you’re not actively pushing girls away or thinking having only male friends makes you superior and “not like other girls” there’s no problem. I’ve gone through seasons of having only female and only male friends around me, I strive for a balance but that’s not always possible. If you want more female friends I suggest joining clubs that have mostly female members.

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  • ellnell

    I'm the same way, just never got along well with other women as they find me rude for being reserved. They act like there's something suspicious about that or that i'm just silently judging them because i'm not talking much. I really can't say why women take it that way when the men i've met doesn't. Insecurity perhaps.
    I only have male friends but personally I am asexual so it works pretty easily. My friends get flirty sometimes but I go laugh at it.

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    • a-curious-bunny

      Haha right. Women irritate me. Thankfully I mainly hang out with men. They are so much more fun. Being one of the guys is pretty great.

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  • LloydAsher

    You'll grow up and find what you like eventually. I thought I was bi for a good chunk of my teenage life. Then was proven wrong in the most awkward way.

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    • SkullsNRoses

      Dare I ask how?

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      • LloydAsher

        Getting my dick sucked by a gay dude and realizing I was not into the general idea of everything.

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        • SkullsNRoses

          We live and learn.

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          • LloydAsher

            Yep. Not gay.

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  • Somenormie

    Yes, its fine if you don't want to be with them.

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