I don't know what to do....

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Okay I've been with the same girl for a few years now. Things have been going really well. But one day I woke up and nothing felt right. I didn't even feel like myself. Almost like I was a completely different person. And this isn't the first time it's happened. I don't know why it happens or how to fix it. But when it does happen, I don't feel like I can be with her anymore for some reason. I feel like everything about myself has to be changed. I don't want to have to leave her, but at the same time, I don't want to keep dragging her down with me when this happens. It isn't fair to to her at all. Does anyone know what this could be? Or what to do to fix whatever it is?

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  • dodongos
    11 years ago

    The same thing happened to me a few times with my girlfriend. Especially right before the first time I slept with her, I felt like I didn't even know who she was.

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  • Mateus977
    13 years ago

    If you feel like changing, change! Thats how you get to know your true self. Explore. Go through all of those "phases" people speak of. You never know whats on the other side until you go there. You arent the same person you were five years ago. And you wont be the same person in five years. Dump the chick. If it isn't right now then it's not gonna be later. Go find yourself.

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  • CountessCoolout
    13 years ago

    Maybe you're just in a rut. Take a vacation if you can or have an affair or something. Living a monotonous life can be extremely stressful!

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  • subliminal_mind_fnck
    13 years ago

    Typically, if a girl has bee with you for a few years, she's in it for the long haul.

    Try messing with other things in life to tweak changes here and there so life doesn't feel so monotonous without driving someone who does care about you away.

    Talk to your girl. She needs to know how you feel and tha you are thinking these things, but also needs to know you do not want to manifest them. If she has been with you for a few years already, chances are she can take this too and it will be the begining of a great support system for you if you decide you need clinical help or therapy.

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  • UtopianCosmos
    14 years ago

    It could be an episode of depersonalization.

    I suffer from it and it can be very like that. If you can, go see someone. You may need some medication or therapy to help you :).

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