I don't know if i am a lesbian or not!

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I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost two years. Ever since I have been with him i have gotten interested in girls, like their appearance(eg boobs, butt, waist, and how cute their faces are). Girls turn me on sometimes. I can't help but stare at a pretty girl and i find myself never staring at guys.

Still..my boyfriend does turn me on but sometimes i don't find him attractive. I am lost!! How do i find out if i am lesbian?

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  • Yaegs43
    13 years ago

    Ask your bf to marry you, then get a hot maid and just have threesomes

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  • Niggajews56atpenisdotcom
    6 years ago

    I think maybe this is just a phase. Wait a while, if you still feel this way, your probably bisexual, which is okay

    Don't let anyone tell you different

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I've developed same sex attractions (I'm male) but I still like the opposite sex too, you're like me just bi-curious/bisexual. Point is it's alright to like both you don't have to pick one, just go with what you feel. Hell even tell your boyfriend you have same sex fantasies I'm sure he;d be more than happy to organise an MMF threesome lol, aslong as you don't go running off with the girl afterwards haha

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  • Treynine
    13 years ago

    Bi sexual

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  • babyburd
    13 years ago

    Actually!! Its normal for girls to find other girls attractive. Its in our nature (aha, we can't help it) not saying that thats an excuse for lesbians bein' lesbians. We are all sexual beings, just not sex addicts. You might be sexually frustrated or dissatisfied, but every one has those issues. I just know that you should know if you really are attracted to women, or you just find them attractive...........but DON'T try to 'test' it out on someone. You might hurt yourself or someone else (not physically, but emotionally) Try to find what makes you happy, and not so much as to what arouses you {that is important also, just not as important :)}

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      How could you hurt them emotionally? I "tried" it and preferred it to the love of a man, but no-one was hurt...

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  • cooldavid
    14 years ago

    Find a couple that is a guy and bi-girl that you think is attractive and go to bed with them... then you can try guy and girl at the same time, and see which one you like better, nsa. You're probably bi.

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    • eagle
      14 years ago

      i agree, your probably at least somewhat bisexual, no big deal, but david's way of finding out is probably not the best way, experimenting is fine, but dont get into anything you'll regret

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  • sanitycheck
    14 years ago

    "How do i find out if i am lesbian?"

    Seems really simple to me - try it!

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