I don't know how to stop being clingy..

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I'm shy, and recently joined a dating site. The thing is my social skills are 0 and I overthink it all. I'll get talking to a guy I wanna get to know and they stop talking.. even though they seem interested so I keep putting effort it but it seems to backfire...
Then there's other guys making an effort who I'm not attracted too. It's horrible :(
There's one guy who I enjoyed speaking too, but he stops messaging then says he thought he'd sent one. I find it hard to leave them alone when I like them because I want to getto know them, but instead of just saying hi like normal people I send something that shouts 'hey I'm here' and speak from there.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    My friend does this but she takes it a step further. Anytime she finds a good guy she suffocates him. She'll blast him with texts day and night and won't leave hime alone for a second. It's as if she is actively trying to destroy the relationship.

    You have to let the guy set the pace. No guy wants some clingy chick bombarding him all day long. If he is thinking of you, he will make contact guaranteed. Besides most guys like to fuck or get a good blowjob and just chill for a bit. After that get back to their lives.

    Would you want a guy hanging around.all the time. I wouldn't. Its much more fun with my girlfriends. Just come over fuck the shit out of me and let me get back to my life haha.

    Clingy is normal, but good luck keeping a man around very long. Its much better to keep men wanting more.

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    • EccentricWeird
      6 years ago

      Hey tall girl ;);););););););)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Waiting is hard I just wanna message him :(. How long should I wait ? We met on a dating site I don't get it

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      Yet when the guy is making a lot of effort to talk to you but you're not interested he will become annoying. You'll want your space too. It's a sad cycle until you want to connect with someone as much as they want to connect to you...

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Clingy guys don't last long either, correct lol.

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