I don't know how to react to this guy?

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We started talking on a dating website, both wanted the same thing to find someone, added each other on Snapchat he was very flirty and I probably wasn't enough (never done it before, shy, social anxiety etc) he showed towel and shower photos (not nudes) and said he'd like to see me (I thought oh he's here for the photos) I still liked him, fancy him like crazy...
Anyway days passed and I always send general snaps to my friends so I sent them to him he'd always reply nearly always and so I started the convo again, he never has but maybe I never have given him chance.. we got to the point of flirting again and he said he'd like to see me (bikini photo) I reply maybe you'll get lucky but I didn't really send anything..
before all that though I asked him outright if he was shy as when speaking I could tell he seemed awkward and he said extremely can't you tell. I could because I'm the same we had a heart to heart and hes exactly like me, nervous, bad at getting to know people, shy, doesn't go out much. Just made me like him more.

I don't think he just wants photos. But I'm up for a bit of fun but being shy I can't just send one out of the blue can I?
It's the same old we have spoke everyday but he has never messaged first, yet I've never given him chance. Sometimes he'll open my general snap and not reply sometimes he'll just stop the convo and not talk...
Should I ask him or tell him how I feel? It's been a while now and it's bothering me a lot. Confused and a bit sad because I do like him.
I think I am overthinking too but I can't help it. I sent a general snap today and he replied with kisses on the end... :/

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  • youwillgotohell
    6 years ago

    Move on

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  • Trapped_human
    6 years ago

    There is definitely some interest, i can tell. But i advise... be careful sending revealing pictures, if you dont want them spread all over the internet then don't send them as theres a chance he may just do that, even if they arent nudes. Definitely tell him how you feel, whats the worst that can happen? If you don't tell him then youll never know if he feels the same way.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeh I wouldn't send any nudes or anything just bikini ones if any, he's sent some so he trusts me obviously.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Don't even send bikini pics. Just move on with your life, because he's playing with your head. Whatever you do DO NOT SEND AND NUDE PICS!!! He's an asshole who isn't truly interested in you; he just wants stuff to fap to. Stop messaging him ASAP!

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        • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
          6 years ago

          No shit.... He probably ain't messaging you cause his got a hundred females his trying to get pictures from. Me and some guys used to play this game all the time to see WTF we can get and send it too everyone pissing ourselves laughing, I am a female and we trolled Xbox live looking for "Where the hoes at nigga!" And some of these tarts are like I'm not into females so no and I'm like that's okay bitch cause my homie been sending me all your shit that you been sending him so I already know hoe! You give a mouse a cookie, they'll want a glass of milk.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            Damn.

            To tell the truth I'd rather see the mouse with milk and cookies than a ho any day of the week.

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            • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
              6 years ago

              😂😂😂🤣

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  • Alexandertheasshat
    6 years ago

    Idk he sounds like a Fboy. If I were you I wouldn't trust him.

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  • Sizzlesizz1
    6 years ago

    You're overthinking it, just have fun with it! And whatever happens will happen.

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    Anyways, you need to move on. There are way more guys out there who are more deserving of you. Some people just do stupid thing 'at the heat of the moment'. One day you'll look back thanking yourself that you moved on.

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    He never took the initiative, so this is like a one sided thing. He may be shy but he's flirty and wants nudes? You don't know what he's been through since you met him on a dating site. He must've known you were a newbie and tried taking advantage of you. He must have a lot of girls that could take your place. Don't fret, take some time off. See how he reacts.

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  • Asashouryuu
    6 years ago

    Listen to Trapped_human and Tealights: their advice is good. I think your hesitancy is perfectly normal. Get to know him better, let him know your feelings, and don't send anything that you wouldn't want to haunt you later.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Overthinking.

    Judging anything based on how frequent a person texts, or how quickly they reply back is immature, to put it nicely. There are plenty of young adults who hardly text, nor keep a text conversation going. Me, personally, I rather just talk on the phone.

    Also, go on a date; a movie, coffee shop, ice cream, walk in the park during the day, something. It's impossible to truly understand someone's personality through text.

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