If you two have been drunk, then you know it lowers inhibitions.
If you can't 'accidentally' get drunk enough to risk an unpleasant convo by asking him to do some particular thing to YOU, then get him drunk enough to not fight you when you do something to him. And tell him the whole time how much you love him for it, and how good it makes you feel.
And point blank TELL him you want to enjoy great sex with HIM- let him wonder what you mean by that [sometimes they'll give in rather than risk you stepping out- men use that all the time to coerce wives into 3 ways . You are STAYING within marital boundaries] Marriage is supposed to be about trust. If he cannot trust you with his private situations, then you do not have a good marriage in other areas. Does he also control all the money?
I just distanced myself from someone that cannot lower his barriers enough to trust me with his issues. Pussy footing around, bringing it up gently and avoiding the topic does NO GOOD.
Could have been GREAT, all of our insecurities notwithstanding. Don't let it go....
I don't have the level of intimacy with my husband I would like
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If you two have been drunk, then you know it lowers inhibitions.
If you can't 'accidentally' get drunk enough to risk an unpleasant convo by asking him to do some particular thing to YOU, then get him drunk enough to not fight you when you do something to him. And tell him the whole time how much you love him for it, and how good it makes you feel.
And point blank TELL him you want to enjoy great sex with HIM- let him wonder what you mean by that [sometimes they'll give in rather than risk you stepping out- men use that all the time to coerce wives into 3 ways . You are STAYING within marital boundaries] Marriage is supposed to be about trust. If he cannot trust you with his private situations, then you do not have a good marriage in other areas. Does he also control all the money?
I just distanced myself from someone that cannot lower his barriers enough to trust me with his issues. Pussy footing around, bringing it up gently and avoiding the topic does NO GOOD.
Could have been GREAT, all of our insecurities notwithstanding. Don't let it go....