I don't get why people like me

For some reason I'm always being told about someone liking me in a friendly way and I have no idea why. People invite me to things even though I haven't said a word to them and tell me how great I am compared to others. Around people I just look around without talking so why would they want me around? Is it cause people automatically like mute people or something

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  • CountessDouche

    People's favorite pastime is talking about themselves, so they love good listeners like you, mutey. Perhaps you also have a friendly face or affect.

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  • Boojum

    Who knows?

    Are you a highly decorative accessory that every party-giver wants to have on display?

    Some people are charismatic: they just give off a friendly vibe without even knowing they're doing it.

    But since you mention not saying much, I suspect CountessDouche makes a good point: you're seen as a nice sponge to absorb the verbal output of others. You probably just make the right little noises without interrupting their constant spewing of stuff about themselves, and they like that.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Follow whatever opportunity or direction that life seems to take you, without question. You can't change what's meant to be.

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  • aidonger

    this made me more self aware of my self indulgences, thank you.

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  • geek_god_101

    I wish I had this problem. I hate people who only like me for goods and services.

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