I don't deserve affection?

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I don't think that anyone deserves to date me? I've always WANTED a boyfriend so bad and I admire relationships but the thought of someone actually liking me enough to want to waste time with me and admire me, I can't comprehend. I just think it's impossible. And I don't think I'm that bad looking. I've never kissed anyone or anything because I can't see myself doing but yet I still want to and grrr.

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Based on 47 votes (32 yes)
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  • ms-creatureofthenight
    12 years ago

    I know what you mean I've felt god who could want to be with me but theres someone out there like you

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  • jamesmitchell29486
    12 years ago

    you simply suffer from low self esteem i know i have this curse as well because even though i know intellectually/contiously that i'm awesome i can't help but feeling that deep seated humility and sence of being worthless that has been instilled in me by the world because i don't conform to some physical &/or mental ideal of normality that everyone is supposed to want.

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    • flwrpwrful
      12 years ago

      That is pretty much exactly how I'm feeling. I've always suffered from low self esteem but it's gotten better over the years and I guess that's whats holding me back still.

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      • jamesmitchell29486
        12 years ago

        Hello would you like to talk about it sometime? ;)

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  • Kagean
    11 years ago

    I feel exactly the same way.
    But is it normal? Might be..

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  • Phoenix956
    12 years ago

    From what ive seen its this sense of humility and concern which drives people with this mindset to really put a serious effort into any relationship they get into. so the answer to your question is no and simply because what you have is not relationship material, its "marriage" material and if you meet the right guy your gonna have a real shot at something serious.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    12 years ago

    I think lots of people feel that way to some extent. Some are just better at hiding it. I thought being someones friend would cause them harm or bad luck, or that people just put up with me to be nice. but most people aren't that nice. just do the things you like to do and be proud. there's probably somebody that wants you right now actually, you just don't realize it. But seriously, if you don't get on top of that low self-esteem you will ruin good relationships and gravitate towards abusive ones. and probably end up with unhealthy attitudes concerning sex.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Don't be too desperate for someone else to come along to control your life. Independence and confidence is sexy, and the right one is just around the corner!

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    Maybe if you are really nice to them and do everything they want you can accept people liking you.

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