I don't consider people who had non-vaginal sex virgins
A lot of people seem to think that if you don't put a penis into a vagina, you're still a virgin. I never did. To me, anyone who has manually stimulated someone else to orgasm has lost his/her virginity. That includes having anal sex, giving handjobs, blowjobs, bukkake, etc. even if you haven't popped your cherry. If it was unintentional, like if they were kissing and hugging and one of them suddenly orgasmed, I still consider virginity preserved. I consider virginity lost the second someone manually stimulates another to sexual orgasm, regardless of method.
I'm not trying to deride virgins at all. Whether or not someone is a virgin or not means nothing to me on how good of a person they are. But still, in my eyes, intentional direct manual sexual stimulation of someone other than yourself automatically results in a loss of virginity.
Is this a normal viewpoint?