I don't believe in true/real love nomore

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Hi everyone. I think real Love doesn't exist. It's extremely hard now days to find that right person. every body is so temporary. I can't take people serious now days. It's crazy how love is now days. If you like fall in love with someone you'll end up crying in your day bed. Asking yourself what did you do wrong. When you did nothing wrong but just trying to love. . Im just gonna protect my💓 forever. It's not healthy for me. I said all of that because I've been through it and it sucks. But will I find that special someone. It's so many people are in the world. I know that there's someone out there for me. Or maybe its not. I'm a 22 yr old female.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Yeah, you're a millennial; sadly, our generation doesn't understand what true love is, most of us still live at home with our parents or professional students, and many are apathetic and lazy.

    Like my friends and many others I've observed that's around my age, a lot of us have no clue what true love is. I'm not claiming to be an expert, but I know it's not just sex, give & take, a point system, the honeymoon phase, texting all the time, etc. Love takes time and work, something many of us are unwilling to invest energy into; it's easier to keep the relationship aloof, distant; somewhat serious without being too serious. So I agree with you, it's annoying to deal with.

    How to counter all this, don't hate love; understand what it truly is and try to build toward it, but know when to walk away if someone is treating you poorly. Google that shit if you have to, and explore. Relationship Red Flags, Infatuation Vs Love, and more. Love is an emotion made up of various things, all pointing to the embodiment of selflessness and acceptance.

    Like right now, I have an idiot friend (male, 24) who says he loves his girlfriend (22), but hates that she's chubby and pushing her to lose weight. It's disgusting how he treats her, but her self-esteem is far too low to see the wrong in his actions/words. You don't date someone because they have the potential to change into what you want, but because they are what you want right now; you accept them for as they are and welcome change when they're ready.

    Ugh, I can go on and on, but I wont. Just don't give up on love. It's possible.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    6 years ago

    Love doesn't exist, only attraction and mutually beneficial agreements. Also, due to the Pareto Principle 80% of women only want the 20% top men. When a double match happens you get that illusion that you call true love.

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    • BlackCatsAreAwesome
      6 years ago

      Ha, some butthurt hopeless romantic already down voted me. Truth hurts.

      Believe me, the sooner you realise this red pill truth, the less you'll have future heartbreak. You can keep believing that everything happens for a reason or that there's somebody out there for everyone but you'll mostly just keep feeling miserable for as long as it doesn't happen.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    You're only 22. Chill. Heartbreak happens. Just be sure to find someone you connect with rather than trying to build a relationship that was initiated by lust alone.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    It exists. You just have to be patient and you'll have it. Don't fret over temporary Joe's, someone will come along that's worth sticking with.

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  • gxdezlh
    6 years ago

    Don't lose hope! I know for a fact that true love DOES exist.

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  • ANSWERMEPLS
    6 years ago

    i think it does.. cuz i never seen two ppl in this UNIVERSE who love each other like mom and dad.. like SERIOUSLY love each other.. but they don't show it. and no they dont love each other for money or beauty or bcs they have something in common, they.. just love each other.. but like theyre not always next to each other and not always holding each others hands (it's very rare) but they CARE a whole lot for each other and theyve been together more than 25 years.. so dont give up yet :)

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