I don't believe in putting time and energy into pleasing other people
I believe it is pointless to try to please other people. I believe it is yourself that should be pleased, regardless if other people are pleased or not. It is nearly impossible to please other people, but there is one person that is possible to satisfy, And that is yourself. Not only is it easier than pleasing other people, it is what should matter more. I never understood why people waste their energy on trying to please other people. Like I said, it is nearly impossible and it's just a waste of time. All for nothing. And then those same people end up being the ones that are hurt. Why do something pointless, that'll just hurt you? That makes it even more stupid. The point is, it is better if you are pleased, not other people. It is better and easier.