I do nothing and i'm increasingly happy with that
I am at the end of my 20's and have found myself in the position of not having to do anything if I don't want to. And I have begun to realize that what I don't want to do... is anything.
I don't work, because I don't have to.
I don't go out, because I don't have to.
I don't have anyone I would consider a friend, because I don't have to.
The family I used to be close to is dead, but the rest I don't talk to, because I don't have to.
I spend my day in my house or yard, tending my plants, making stuff, watching movies, reading... and that's it.
I have no desire to be around anyone. I did try to "make friends" when I moved to this city, out of some sense of obligation because that's what people do. But I quickly realized that the reason I don't tend to hold onto friends when I move is because I never wanted to spend time with them to begin with. I just had to, because back then I didn't have as many resources to be fully independent. I find people to be a lot more effort than they're worth, almost always disappointing, selfish, shallow, or high maintenance, and make simple things more complicated than they need to be. Life is so smooth and effortless without other people throwing wrenches in everything.
There are things I think I would enjoy for work, but the trade-off isn't worth it to me. I wouldn't be allowed to look how I wanted, I'd have to work ridiculous hours for far too little pay (even if I don't need the money, I still take issue with the insult of today's ever-falling wages), I'd have no flexibility, no energy for anything else, and, possibly, I'd have to finish the degree I bailed on (because I didn't need to do it), which means a bunch of pointless silly paperwork to impress someone who's probably no more intelligent or educated than I am. In the age of online access to almost everything ever published, it seems ridiculous to me that we still need some stuffed shirt to sign a piece of paper to prove we know things that you can very easily teach yourself.
At the end of the day, I don't need to do any of these things. I don't need anyone to like me because I can afford to just pay for whatever I need. I don't need a job for the same reason. I don't have expensive tastes, so I see no reason I couldn't maintain this for the foreseeable future, if not the rest of my life.
So... I do nothing. And I don't really have any desire to change any of that. To be honest, the only "social" thing I ever do anymore is a morning outdoor yoga class, and that's only because everyone else is too tired to talk afterwards (probably because they're overworked), so it's easy for me to just hustle out at the end without being bothered. I go for the beautiful views, not the people.
I just am not interested in whatever versions of life are available to me. I find our society very selfish and extremely boring, and after living in several other countries, have concluded that most places are just as bad or worse in their own ways. So I came home, and chose to do nothing. I prefer being alone and doing my own thing.
Is it normal?