I dispise my best friend's boyfriend

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My best friend has been dating this guy for a while and i absolutely despise him. He is annoying, inappropriate and just effing stupid. None of my other friends like him either. Why is she still going out with him? I mean she is a very beautiful girl and could probably have anyone in the shcool. But no. she HAD to choose that waste of space.

I try to avoid him as much as possible. Whenever he is around it makes everything so damn awkward. My other friends tell me it wont last forvever. What if it does? What if they get married? The only way i would go to their wedding is to throw bricks at him while evryone else is throwing rice at them.

I thought they were gunna end it a while ago. of course not. I got too excited so now they would be going out again.

I am happy for her, it's just... i dont think he is the right guy. She deserves someone way better, way cleaner and someone like me. But she doesn't see that and probably never will.

Is it normal that i just really dont like him?

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  • megaan
    12 years ago | pl

    yeah it's normal , one of my friends had a bf that was a psycho who no one liked and he ended up jumping on the hood of her moms car. lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    it's completely normal:\ i wouldn't cal it jelousy it's more that i miss my bestfriend because she spends more time with him then me xx

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    i dont like my best friends boyfriend either

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  • sonyking100
    13 years ago | pl

    Don't be jealous of this guy. I bet you love your friend dearly but really you can't be putting yourself though this. You see the bad in him while I'm sure your friend sees the good. Your just hating and that has repercussions.

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  • dymanicsystems
    13 years ago | pl

    is it that u missing the time that your friend use to spend with you but now spends with her bf ??

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    You would know if this is jealousy, possessiveness or just a genuine concern for the well-being of a friend making what, for you, is a bad choice.

    You could try to avoid him if he annoys you that much, and keep your opinion to yourself otherwise with a view that she will need a friend if this goes off the tracks. Which you think is just a matter of time. She certainly ned a friend then.

    BTW - Minding your own business doesn't apply if he is being abusive.

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  • proudbitch
    13 years ago | pl

    Talk to her, tell her how you feel about it. But at the end of it, dont let their relationship affect your friendship. Make sure she knows your happy as long as shes happy but your also concerned for her..

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  • dmiranda12
    13 years ago | pl

    you need to focus on your life and not your friend's..lol.. if she's happy with him, then thats all that matters. you're not gonna be there when theyre living their life together.. you wouldnt like it if she hated your boyfriend even though you loved him.. however, if he treats her badly then i agree with your anger.

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