I disowned my friends

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Is it normal to just stop talking to your friends after high school for no good reason?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago | pl

    Ofcourse its normal. I don't talk to anyone I went to school with. After school you move foward with your own life. Its normal.

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  • CloverFish
    8 years ago | pl

    Normal. In highschool, you are kinda forced to be around certain people, and even befriend them. After highschool, there's nothing forcing you together after that. A few good friends I had in highschool I never really talked to after graduation, and neither on either side made an effort to either.

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  • LifeTheRide
    8 years ago | pl

    That's not a good reason at all. You can't hate someone if they didn't do anything.

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    • LifeTheRide
      8 years ago | pl

      Drifting apart is one thing, but disowning them for no reason just makes you come off as mean. I lost my friends due to stupid actions I've made and I'd do ANYTHING to get them back. I can 'convince' myself that I'll meet them again someday but that isn't a fact.

      Don't make the same mistake I did. One of the greatest pains is losing a friend because you weren't dedicated enough to keep him or her in your life. If you don't try getting them back now, you will regret it later.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Of course its normal. After high school you can choose those you wish to associate with, rather than being forced to associate with others only because of geographic proximity and age.

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    • [Old Memory]
      8 years ago | pl

      Atleast someone gets it.

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  • Toball
    8 years ago | pl

    Do you really mean disowned or did you mean just been out of contact?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      I just feel their extremely irrelevant to my life. I feel like I just hung with them because that was the thing to do.

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      • Toball
        8 years ago | pl

        Ok I asume you truly mean disowned; why? Want to talk about it?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          Heck no, and I don't look back either

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