How subjective! This girl has a freaking problem; one can't simply decide what to feel. She obviously realizes it's not healthy to "disrespect" herself due to her mother's character or whatever, and that's why she's discussing it here.
"Loving oneself" is not a piece of cake. It's not something that happens over night. You don't wake up one day and say to yourself, "today I'm going to love myself." We wish it were that easy. Some people spend years of councelling for that, some even drown in an ocean of dEpressiondue to self-loathing and others die, unable to love themselves. So get real and give the girl a break.
Thank you. Average people never resolve their deepest inner demons. I hate to say it, but my reality is a textbook example of what happens when an emotionally abused and neglected child grows up. People who say things like "get real", as if its a simple decision, have had the luxury of someone giving half a shit about their well-being. Seeing myself reminds me of my mother, which reminds me of what a perverse waste of life she is. This is a new thing for me, I haven't always hated my face because it looked like hers. I thinks it's simply because I'm a young adult now and am afraid of 'turning into' her in the following years and decades. God forbid it. I'll never have children if I dont resolve and become a wholesome person.
Ps, pardon my long sappy response. I couldn't help it lol.
Don't worry about it. I am sure you will not end up like her because you seem mature enough to point your finger on what sucks about her. You know what you don't want to be, there fore you should know what you want to be. Keep that in mind, believe in yourself, grow into a better person, perhaps the opposite of your mother if that makes you feel better, and eventually you will love yourself and pass through this.
I wish you good things:) it's up to you to make them happen though.
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How subjective! This girl has a freaking problem; one can't simply decide what to feel. She obviously realizes it's not healthy to "disrespect" herself due to her mother's character or whatever, and that's why she's discussing it here.
"Loving oneself" is not a piece of cake. It's not something that happens over night. You don't wake up one day and say to yourself, "today I'm going to love myself." We wish it were that easy. Some people spend years of councelling for that, some even drown in an ocean of dEpressiondue to self-loathing and others die, unable to love themselves. So get real and give the girl a break.
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Thank you. Average people never resolve their deepest inner demons. I hate to say it, but my reality is a textbook example of what happens when an emotionally abused and neglected child grows up. People who say things like "get real", as if its a simple decision, have had the luxury of someone giving half a shit about their well-being. Seeing myself reminds me of my mother, which reminds me of what a perverse waste of life she is. This is a new thing for me, I haven't always hated my face because it looked like hers. I thinks it's simply because I'm a young adult now and am afraid of 'turning into' her in the following years and decades. God forbid it. I'll never have children if I dont resolve and become a wholesome person.
Ps, pardon my long sappy response. I couldn't help it lol.
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Don't worry about it. I am sure you will not end up like her because you seem mature enough to point your finger on what sucks about her. You know what you don't want to be, there fore you should know what you want to be. Keep that in mind, believe in yourself, grow into a better person, perhaps the opposite of your mother if that makes you feel better, and eventually you will love yourself and pass through this.
I wish you good things:) it's up to you to make them happen though.
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I appreciate it!!!