I went through this. I do not like either my parents as people. they are the kind of people that if we were not related, I would not want to meet/have a relationship with.
What worked for me was to realize that no matter where I come from, my face, my quirks and my brain are mine; in reality we tend to see similarities where we look for them (it is scientifically proven), and my face, and yours, have similarities with so many people because most of the genetic pool is shared by all of humankind.
You are at the center of your life, heck you are your life, not other people, not even your parents that initiated the biological process to make the organism that is you. Who cares if you have some similarities with your parents, and Hitler, and putTheNameOfPersonYouDoNotLikeHere: you are unique, be confident of that :-)
I dislike my face because I look like my mother...
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I went through this. I do not like either my parents as people. they are the kind of people that if we were not related, I would not want to meet/have a relationship with.
What worked for me was to realize that no matter where I come from, my face, my quirks and my brain are mine; in reality we tend to see similarities where we look for them (it is scientifically proven), and my face, and yours, have similarities with so many people because most of the genetic pool is shared by all of humankind.
You are at the center of your life, heck you are your life, not other people, not even your parents that initiated the biological process to make the organism that is you. Who cares if you have some similarities with your parents, and Hitler, and putTheNameOfPersonYouDoNotLikeHere: you are unique, be confident of that :-)