I did "it" with him

There is a guy that I have studied with/went to class with over the years and last night he was over for a study session and we got "down with it". First we got out our books, then he started saying how beautiful I looked, then he started stripping me, and then we had sex! I didn't know it was coming until we started stripping! What a night! Should I have done that?

Girl! You on fire! 49
Heck na you shouldn't have done that! 8
IDK! 14
No! 9
Yes! 27
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  • ostrichPartner

    There's no "Who cares?" option.

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    • If you don't care then why are you even commenting?

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      • ostrichPartner

        Because I would like to voice my opinion?

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        • Ok?

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          • babyhazel

            i hate dem low life scum who board not u dat ostrich dude

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            • I cant translate. :( I'm French and I can't translate that message.

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  • Nemurin

    It sounds like you both had a good time from doing it, so what would be wrong with it?

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    • IDK. But I did have kids in the house.

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      • Fetiza000

        Saying ''IDK'' isnt a valid answer, ya know. Its just a way for idiots to avoid being honest.

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        • Ok then I don't know!

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          • Fetiza000

            IDK stands for ''I don't know'', so nice try.

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            • Yeah I know. I'm not dumb.

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  • strangethingshappen

    Why isn't there an option for plain stupid

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    • I'm plain stupid? Well I don't think so!

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      • babyhazel

        strangthingshappen is so fucking RUDE
        you go get da dick girl

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  • nikkiclaire

    Hopefully you were careful.

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    • That's what I'm worried about.

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      • nikkiclaire

        So you weren't careful and had sex with kids in the house? Probably not the best idea. What do you plan on doing about it?

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        • Maid_in_Pink

          Married couples have sex with kids in the house all the time, why is that a big deal? People who are married will fuck with a baby in the room with them and pick it up while they are naked, they usually wash their hands or something first but still.

          When kids get older do you think sex just stops? It just changes to locking doors or doing it quietly just the same as having roommates or the like.

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          • curious-bunny

            Pretty much, my dad and step mom would just yell at us to clean the house, next thing you know your sweeping by there door and there's some creak creaking

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            • Wow!

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          • nikkiclaire

            Well from the description it didn't sound like they are married, and it doesn't sound like the children were siblings or anything so, at the very least it's bad form to "fuck", for the first time, while watching other peoples kids.

            I was more concerned that she was protected, and it sounds like she wasn't.

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            • The kids were mine.

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            • Maid_in_Pink

              I was thinking more single mother which is acceptable in my opinion(except the not safe part). And yeah, babysitter banging in the other room in someone elses house is pretty bad form with someone else's kids in the house too I have to double the bad idea thing.

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          • Yeah... I guess so.

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        • At least they were sleeping!

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        • Well I'm going to have a talk with him about it.

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          • nikkiclaire

            Are you concerned?

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            • Well kind of but IDK why.

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  • congress

    sounds like he took advantage of you

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    • It does doesn’t it.

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  • MarieWantsIt

    Spontaneous sex is incredible. I'm jealous

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    • ☺️

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  • OwOWhatsThis

    👌👈

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    • No. I didn't do that.

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  • odilo_globotnik

    So?

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    • ................

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  • jeremybrown50hhh

    Hot.

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    • I guess...

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  • Oh...When you said, "it" I thought you meant you guys dressed up as animals from the African wilds and had smoothies.

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    • *roles eyes and laughs*

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  • It's not like you just met him, you say you have studied with him for years. You clearly get on well together or you wouldn't study together. You're not exactly a lily white virgin if you have kids and assuming you are both single, why should there be anything wrong with the 2 of you getting together. Admittedly it would have been wise to use protection, but you are hardly the first couple to get carried away in the heat of the moment. I would suggest speak to your pharmacist at the earliest opportunity and get a morning after pill, then get to your local GUM clinic and get checked out. It will probably all be fine but better safe than sorry. If the 2 of you intend to continue a relationship (and there is no reason not to if you both want to) once you have both been checked you can forget condoms if you want and use a different from of birth control.

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    • nikkiclaire

      The morning after pill as birth control? No, she needs to grow up, get on the pill AND use a condom.

      I am willing to bet society is paying to raise her current children, we can't afford another one.

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      • I agree I wasn't suggesting using morning after pill as regular contraception, I'm saying use it now for what already happened. Get checked at a clinic then use contraception responsibly. Whatever method they use is up to them, but they need to be responsible. As you say the state can't keep paying to raise her kids if that is what is happening.

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        • Yeah

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        • nikkiclaire

          Agree.

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          • yep

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      • :(

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        • nikkiclaire

          Sorry but it's serious. You shouldn't be having sex if you aren't being responsible.

          I'm not trying to be mean to you.

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          • The rest of that night I don't remember...

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    • Yeah that works!

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  • jethro

    Wow he didn't even start by kissing you? He just started stripping you and you let him. Man you are easy.

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    • Well I like to go with the flow.

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      • jethro

        Interesting. Since this won't be the last time with him, what are you planning on naming the baby?

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        • I've got prego twice I don't think I'm doing it again. Next time I'm having a condom in the purse or pocket.

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          • jethro

            So you already have two kids and you are still in high school and living at home. I can see that there is a third on the way. They say that the third time's a charm.

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            • College.

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  • amg1028

    How do you feel about it? if you enjoyed yourself, then thats all that matters. We only live once, you know

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    • I enjoyed it but I don't now how my kids would react about their mommy dating another guy.

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      • amg1028

        You are allowed to have fun and only have to tell your kids when you are in something serious with a guy, like long term or even heading towards marriage. Is this guy someone serious?

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        • He is.

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          • amg1028

            Then break the news to them gently, have their favorite snacks or foods to try to keep them in their best mood. I wish you all the luck and happiness. You deserve to be happy and kids are tougher than they look, explain how you feel and the situation you are in as best as you can to them, thats all you can really do. Good luck! :)

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            • Thank you a lot!

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  • Sounds like a fun night. As long as you practiced safe sex, it's cool.

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    • I haven't had much sex...

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