I'm Irish and I can tell you that she does not and will not ever trust you again. I'd say that your wife 'pretended' to forgive you for the past 5 years - thinking that if she didn't mention it, then she would forget. This hasn't happened, and maybe now that you're both nearing retirement or that your kids have left, she's dreading having to spend all her time with you. Apparently, one group of people where divorce is on the increase is among the recently retired.
How long did your affair last?
Did you tell your wife all the details or did she catch you out?
These questions matter as to how she's reacting at the moment.
I genuinely feel sorry for you :o( Everyone makes mistakes!
You need to give her some space (to lick her wounds) but when in her company try to be nice - even if she snarls a reply.
i did it and she won't forgive me or forget it, IIN?
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ok i get it I am the asshole..i know that...but honestly ...it is wearing on us both...how can i get her to trust me again...?
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I'm Irish and I can tell you that she does not and will not ever trust you again. I'd say that your wife 'pretended' to forgive you for the past 5 years - thinking that if she didn't mention it, then she would forget. This hasn't happened, and maybe now that you're both nearing retirement or that your kids have left, she's dreading having to spend all her time with you. Apparently, one group of people where divorce is on the increase is among the recently retired.
How long did your affair last?
Did you tell your wife all the details or did she catch you out?
These questions matter as to how she's reacting at the moment.
I genuinely feel sorry for you :o( Everyone makes mistakes!
You need to give her some space (to lick her wounds) but when in her company try to be nice - even if she snarls a reply.