I despise being a lesbian

I hate being a lesbian because it feels as if I'll never be able to find love. Every other LGBT person I've ever met seems to have the same interests and similar personalities. Online it's easy to see other lesbians that I have things in common with but whenever I go to meet more LGBT women, I always notice the same pattern of behaviors that I can't really find myself ever being attracted to. Because of this, I usually only befriend straight people and while this isn't a problem within itself it does become a little bit stressful once I put it into perspective. I would absolutely love to be in a relationship but only men are interested in me. I know this probably all sounds a bit cynical, but I would love to know if there are any other people out there who understand where I'm coming from.

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  • Imamesss

    Exactly. I try to find a decent person but when I do they are totally weird, sometimes I think should I just go with it? Cause there isn’t much fish in the sea where I’m from

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    • yeah! that's exactly how i usually go about it too. i wouldn't mind it so much if i didn't feel like my options were so low.

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  • TerriAngel

    Good relationships are hard to find.

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  • SKDM007

    let time gives its course

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  • youre

    answer to ur tittle is ,simply becaouse being a lesbian is againest the natural that god creat us on( and we fucked it up) . i don't judge you or anybody tho , its just my point of view. i hope you find the right love you are looking for and live a happy normal life

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    • while i obviously disagree with you, i do appreciate the thoughtful response and your ability to accept that other people are allowed to have different opinions :) best wishes

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  • Mister_Merlin

    It's not normal to despise your sexuality, there's nothing you can do to change it. It is normal to believe it's impossible to fin dlove, everyone feels that way at some time.

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  • EchoS1

    If you’re that concerned go see a therapist

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  • Bratz

    Who cares about personality when you're in the middle of scissoring?

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